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THE first kiss was akward for me,it was my first date, and thei second date was a new experience,it was a wet mushie one on her part. I loved it, I was sixteen,and you can guess what it was like, wow
- May 10th, 2009, 06:46 am
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DogparkAesthete wrote :

I'm in the minority, here, I know--but I'd really prefer no tongues be involved while kissing about 85% of the time.
Hey I moved to Atlanta from Greenville! I am with you there, I hate too much tongue. It's like they're trying to clean the inside of your mouth out. Those sharp pokes are the worst. Less is best!
- May 10th, 2009, 10:57 am
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donna36 wrote :

I think it depends how passionate the kiss is. I always like a bit of tongue, soflty and gentlywhile kissing me with passion










Yeah, only a little though.
- May 10th, 2009, 11:00 am
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Chickie1984 wrote :

what about the round and round? their tongue goes around and around and around, like a propellor. I hate that.


or when he tries to eat your face, lips attach to lips, not cheeks and chin.
OMG! Who have you been kissin, ugh! That sounds horrible.
- May 10th, 2009, 11:01 am
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What about the guy who doesn't like kissing because he has a germ hangup.?  I've been dating this guy, and everything else is fine except he won't kiss me, or if he does it's really weird because he'll stick his tongue out and just touch my lips with it.  Its freakin me out and I don't know what to do.  I did ask him about it and he said he doesn't want to get the flu,  its the season and with the Swine Flu going around he says hes paranoid.  The thing is that,  I'm not sick,  I'm perfectly healthy and feel well so this kissing thing is making me crazy.  Does anyone know what might be wrong with this guy.?

- September 13th, 2009, 09:11 am
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I think a big thing is finding what's right between two people. I dated one guy who didn't use much tongue and didn't like a lot of tongue. He once told me I used too much tongue, so I guess I started to adjust, because when that ended and I started dating someone else, they complained I didn't use enough tongue. Tricky waters, I now find that I like something in the middle with a mix of no tongue to a little tongue and some medium amount of tongue. Of course, I never liked the really slobbery ones. Ick.
- September 13th, 2009, 03:48 pm
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How do women (and I'm guessing even more clueless men) get to be past their teens/20s and still be horrible kissers? I went out on a few dates where the 32 year old woman felt like she was passionate by mashing her face into mine and practically licking the back of my throat. I had to tell her three times, progressively becoming more direct, that it was way too much and then she pouted about me not liking her kisses. The next step was slapping her hand and saying "No, bad kisser! No!"
- September 13th, 2009, 06:34 pm
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jec30 wrote :
How do women (and I'm guessing even more clueless men) get to be past their teens/20s and still be horrible kissers? I went out on a few dates where the 32 year old woman felt like she was passionate by mashing her face into mine and practically licking the back of my throat. I had to tell her three times, progressively becoming more direct, that it was way too much and then she pouted about me not liking her kisses. The next step was slapping her hand and saying "No, bad kisser! No!"

That sounds like she wasn't quite 'right' upstairs. Was that your last date with her?
- September 13th, 2009, 06:44 pm
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What about the guy who doesn't like kissing because he has a germ hangup.? I've been dating this guy, and everything else is fine except he won't kiss me, or if he does it's really weird because he'll stick his tongue out and just touch my lips with it. Its freakin me out and I don't know what to do. I did ask him about it and he said he doesn't want to get the flu, its the season and with the Swine Flu going around he says hes paranoid. The thing is that, I'm not sick, I'm perfectly healthy and feel well so this kissing thing is making me crazy. Does anyone know what might be wrong with this guy.?
Okay, he doesn't want the flu, but he'll stick his tongue out and touch your lips with it?

I think it's a lot more than a fear of getting the flu (and I'm sure it has nothing to do with you)....
- September 13th, 2009, 07:30 pm
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A match I met for a first coffee told me she doesn't want to kiss a guy until she's dated him for a year. Good luck with that. Is this some "advice" she read in "Allure"?

No kissing... that's my complaint.
- September 13th, 2009, 08:03 pm
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