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linpin is offline linpin Post #111  February 18,2009, 12:36pm
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chemistry to me starts with physcial attraction and flirting; but has a mysterious side that is sometimes hard to explain too! i think infatuation can play a big role but goes to a level of friendship that adds tremendously to the chemistry...a connection that can be special and rare to find and when it comes your way can make you a bit crazy inside
 
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jul610 is offline jul610 Post #112  February 18,2009, 7:38pm
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Anyonethat has an answer to this would be a genious and also make much money
 
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ATLRunnerTriGirl,458198 wrote :

If I can't keep my hands off him and want to jump his bones every time I see him.
I hate to admit it, but I agree with this. Chemistry to me is a physical attraction...that spark and connection is just there. That person just does "something" for you. You feel it strong! And for me, if it's a first date and it's there, I want to kiss himby the end of the night. If he doesn't make a move, I will...but I have to make sure he feels the same way. And generally, a woman can tell if a man is interested as well.And I find that chemistry is hard to find these days. Believe me I know, I'm going through it now...
 
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Part of it is physical attraction,but ideally it goes much deeper.Sometimes you feel like you have known each other forever and yet everything seems so fresh and new.Often,it can happen right away,but I've seen it grow over time,too.Besides sharing a similar world-view,there is a spiritual element.Sometimes it can even happen with someone who does NOT share your opinions and views,and this can get sticky,butyou can learn a lot from each other through your differences.It is hard to define!
 
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notyertypical,496337 wrote :

Part of it is physical attraction,but ideally it goes much deeper.Sometimes you feel like you have known each other forever and yet everything seems so fresh and new.Often,it can happen right away,but I've seen it grow over time,too.Besides sharing a similar world-view,there is a spiritual element.Sometimes it can even happen with someone who does NOT share your opinions and views,and this can get sticky,butyou can learn a lot from each other through your differences.It is hard to define!
well said!
 
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BelleDuJour is offline BelleDuJour Post #116  February 22,2009, 10:11pm
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Chemistry? We're going to break it down to love, lust, or friends, or what?LOL When you first meet, I think chemistry is that instant feeling of comfort, you enjoy one another's company. I suppose two consenting adults could fast-forward, depends on those two people. For me, whether it's a first date, sharing a meal, riding horses, or other, chemistry is when two people bond in a way they feel at ease, like the gears of a fine Swiss watch. Make sense?
 
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