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Ready for some straight talk on date dressing? Review myShape's Dating Dress Code, your dating guide for every date destination and learn how to win a $1,000 shopping spree now!
- January 24th, 2009, 10:18 pm
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We need some articles telling slobby men how to dress up for dates, instead of these repetitious chauvanistic articles. Women shouldn't dress up at all unless the man shows the same courtesy and respect. RIP grunge look.
- January 24th, 2009, 10:18 pm
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My favourite's look is the one where guys wear everything over-sized, with their jeans about to fall off and the pants crotch down to their knees. They look a lot like penguins when they have to run or walk up steps. And they've also got their ballcaps angled just so on their heads, with enormous rhinestone earrings that look like something my grandmother would have worn. I always wonder if they realize how incredibly silly they look, sauntering down the street or lounging on a chair in that practiced 'I'm really cool' way. To me, if you have to try that hard to look cool, you're not cool.
- January 26th, 2009, 06:52 am
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"Dress shabbily and they notice the dress. Dress impeccably and they notice the woman" Coco Channel I believe dressing well but not shape enhancing for the first couple of dates. By bringing the attention to my face and hair one can determine. hopefully, a more earnest intension. I am very blessed to have a more than pleasing figure so professionally I will not show it off for the simple reason that attention in that realm is not from the heart but elsewhere
- January 27th, 2009, 01:47 pm
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The important thing is to make sure you feel comfortable. It doesn't matter what you wear if you aren't at ease in it. You'll look better in what fits your comfort zone, than what the experts say to wear.
- February 11th, 2009, 08:15 pm
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my bodyproportations are none of e-harmonys business. this is sexist.
- February 13th, 2009, 05:42 pm
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Not bad advice - just remember to leave room for the imagination..... simply stated - a little more coverage means you're not there for a one-night-stand!
- February 13th, 2009, 06:45 pm
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Hi All,


Just a reminder that the deadline to enter the "$1,000 shopping spree" contest is February 28, 2009. I'm crossing my fingers that an eHarmony Advice member wins.


Good Luck to All!!!


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- February 13th, 2009, 07:46 pm
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Keeping it simple and covered is great advice for everyday not just dating but we should always add something to show our personalities to the outfit.
- February 14th, 2009, 07:57 am
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I think it is a good place to start. You can add your own personal flair as desired. Thanks!
- February 14th, 2009, 11:23 am
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