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goldengirl7676 is offline goldengirl7676 Post #1  January 16,2009, 4:54am
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I was matched with someone whose profile caught my interest. He seems like a nice guy who has a lot going for him.Last week, I decided to make the first move and send him some questions. I noticed that he viewed my profile (my photos are available) before I sent the questions and has done so again a couple of times since I sent them. He has not responded, though. I am wondering if that means he's not all that interested and I should just close him out? If somebody has time to view your profile several times, then I'd think he'd have time to respond to questions and sendthe 5 he choseback to you. Maybe I am wrong, though. Any thoughts?
 
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TheOptimist is offline TheOptimist Post #2  January 16,2009, 4:58am
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If he is not a paying member, he cannot reply.
 
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noseyparker is offline noseyparker Post #3  January 16,2009, 5:13am
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I would close him out. If he's interested he will divvy up the funds and contact you.
 
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Tantalus is offline Tantalus Post #4  January 16,2009, 5:20am
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He's likely a non-paying member, and if he hasn't paid to talk to you yet, he's probably not going to. Close him.
 
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glassonlyhalffull_fillit is offline glassonlyhalffull_fillit Post #5  January 16,2009, 5:45am
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He's likely a non-paying member


It's so unfair to paying members


I too, have several who haven't respondedOP
 
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LonelyStarState is offline LonelyStarState Post #6  January 16,2009, 8:01am

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paying member or not, after 2 days of no reply i closed them out
 
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Bandmate is offline Bandmate Post #7  January 16,2009, 8:11am

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What would women tell a man about this....she is not interested.
 
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Jeanne3344 is offline Jeanne3344 Post #8  January 16,2009, 8:50am
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Is there a way to tell if he is a paying member? If so, how?
 
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56Steve is offline 56Steve Post #9  January 16,2009, 4:36pm
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I don't believe there is. It sure would be nice, though.
 
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jtldear is offline jtldear Post #10  January 16,2009, 4:43pm
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I totally agree- that behavior represents atrait I am notlooking for in a partner... It might even deserve the "other" close...
 
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