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parker6014 is offline parker6014 Post #1  January 15,2009, 6:34pm
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Please help me understand something: a guy gave and still gives me what I interput as signs he is interested: random texts, greeting me with a hug everytime we meet/run into each other, introducing me to his friends (before he introduces his girlfriend), leaning towards me when we speak, invading my personal space.... Yet he totally blow me off when I tried to persue something. Im I just clueless and these are not signs he is interested but is just being friendly??? Not that he stands much of chance with me since he blow me off by email.
 
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If he has a girlfriend why is he hugging you and sending you texts? Further, if something were to evolve, would you not be slightly concerned he's doing the same things with some other woman?
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #3  January 15,2009, 6:46pm
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All in all he sounds like a scumbag. Obviously trying to give you the impression he's interested...but then blowing you off....apparently being disrespectful of his girlfriend. Is this the kind of guy you'd want? Maybe it is.
 
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jayjay,433617 wrote :

All in all he sounds like a scumbag. Obviously trying to give you the impression he's interested...but then blowing you off....apparently being disrespectful of his girlfriend. Is this the kind of guy you'd want? Maybe it is.
Girlfriend came onto scene like 2 weeks after blowing me off. I dont want him, or any guy like him. Was just wondering if I was complete clueless and misreading his signs or I am reading the signs right and he is just scum.
 
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He's just getting a cheap thrill from flirting with you and has no intention of taking it further. I would cease contact after giving him a firm talking to.


Don't mind me though, I'm just sort of like that.
 
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Maybe he has no clue how he comes across to you; maybe that's just his way of being friendly, and he's that way with other women, too.


Maybe he just really likes you a lot as a friend and values your friendship, even though he's not romantically interested in you. Some men are capable of being that way with certain women; my best friend is a perfect example of that.
 
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parker6014,433634 wrote :

jayjay,433617 wrote :


All in all he sounds like a scumbag. Obviously trying to give you the impression he's interested...but then blowing you off....apparently being disrespectful of his girlfriend. Is this the kind of guy you'd want? Maybe it is.


Girlfriend came onto scene like 2 weeks after blowing me off. I dont want him, or any guy like him. Was just wondering if I was complete clueless and misreading his signs or I am reading the signs right and he is just scum.
If you don't want him....then you got nothing to worry about...if he's leaning too close or making you comfortable, you can either give him a piece of gum, or kick his b@lls
 
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Better yet, next time at Lunch, go up to him in front of all of his friends, and tell him off! By the time you get back to school tomorrow, everybody will be talking about it and youll be the coolest girl in the quad!


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He is acting with hismale sexual organnot with his brain.
 
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Steve_Cam is offline Steve_Cam Post #10  January 15,2009, 9:07pm

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greentea_girl,433756 wrote :

He is acting with hismale sexual organnot with his brain.
How can you possibly come to that conclusion? He isnt sleeping with her, nor is he even trying to sleep with her. He just seems not interested in her. She said it herself, when she tried to pursue it further(even though she recognizes he has a girlfriend) he blew her off. Dont any of you all see something wrong here with the gal who is pursuing a guy that she knows has a girlfriend?


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