I hate dating!!!! Am I dooomed to singleness forever?


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miss_mona_lisa is offline miss_mona_lisa Post #1  January 8,2009, 3:49pm
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Ok I really hate dating and when I say dating I mean having dates with different guys until I find Mr. Right. Sheesh


I decided for 2009 to be more open andaccept when guys ask me out on dates. I get asked out but I rarely go out with guy.So I decided I would give dating a try. Ive been on two dates already and I want to scream.


First guy hasbeen trying to get me to go out for a month I finally agree and go to a coffee shop on Saturday. Felt like a job interview, questions like "Tell me about yourself" "What do you like to do for fun" just a barage of questions. how annoying!


Second guy I went out for dinner on Tuesday. He kept touching me. Not in a bad way but just kept touching my arm and shoulder and back. I told him please do not touch me so much (in a polite way of course). He has called me every day since, I only answered once). Also annoying to me.


Now I don't want togo on any more dates.


Is something wrong with me? How will I ever meet someone if I don't want to go on dates. I do not want to be eternally single. Please give advice.
 
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Only go on dates with guys who interest you. Don't go just because someone asks.


Now if some guy you don't know at all asks you out, don't go. Instead have a couple phone conversations to see if you click at all. Then at least you won't waste as much time on really bad dates.


Also you are being passive here. Why not ask guys out that you find interesting?
 
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miss_mona_lisa, wrote :

Ok I really hate dating and when I say dating I mean having dates with different guys until I find Mr. Right. Sheesh


I decided for 2009 to be more open andaccept when guys ask me out on dates. I get asked out but I rarely go out with guy.So I decided I would give dating a try. Ive been on two dates already and I want to scream.


First guy hasbeen trying to get me to go out for a month I finally agree and go to a coffee shop on Saturday. Felt like a job interview, questions like "Tell me about yourself" "What do you like to do for fun" just a barage of questions. how annoying!


Second guy I went out for dinner on Tuesday. He kept touching me. Not in a bad way but just kept touching my arm and shoulder and back. I told him please do not touch me so much (in a polite way of course). He has called me every day since, I only answered once). Also annoying to me.


Now I don't want togo on any more dates.


Is something wrong with me? How will I ever meet someone if I don't want to go on dates. I do not want to be eternally single. Please give advice.
Just be thankful you have an opportunity to date. Look at me, I will spend 2009 at my house alone contemplating why I am undesirable in the eyes of women. I will not go out, as I get tired of seeing happy young couples that constantly tease me with the pleasures I have never tasted. So I sit and look out the window, waiting for the inevitable.
 
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i had 2 first dates this week, and found out that guys aren't in the same phase as i am. i am feeling so hopeless......and sad....
 
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miss_mona_lisa is offline miss_mona_lisa Post #5  January 8,2009, 6:21pm
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Thanks robv_la. You suggestion made sense.I didn't think of that.
 
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #6  January 8,2009, 7:41pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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Yeah....if you don't date that does make it kind of hard to eventually find someone to marry. Like rob said....it should help some if you only date guys you think you might actually have an interest in. Beyond that....it would seem that at some point you will actually have to meet and then get to know (i.e. 'date') a man you'd eventually marry. But yes...I can understand that it can be tedious going on dates with a number of people you don't reallycare forwhile it seems you'll never meet someone you really like.
 
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Mona maybe you and Space can hook up. He is not going to date and you don't want to. Seems like a perfect match. Besides you both have the same profile.
 
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Sigh. I hate dating too.
 
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miss_mona_lisa, wrote :

Ok I really hate dating and when I say dating I mean having dates with different guys until I find Mr. Right. Sheesh


Please give advice.
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peg099,421337 wrote :

Sigh. I hate dating too.
Another one bites the dust.....





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