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1) Do you sing in the shower? - No but always in my car.



2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past? - I'll plead the 5th



3) What are you most afraid of? - Anything bad happening to my kids



4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy? - A new kitchen from a new kitchen store. My current kitchen is old and very badly designed.



5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!) - There are so many interesting and fun people here that it's hard to choose just one. It would be nice to have a big party with all of you.



6) Do you think you are sexy? - not right now. It's 6am and I am wearing flannel pj's but other times sure.



7) Do you think I am sexy? - you are a Christmas tree. Are they supposed to be sexy?



8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date? - did have a lunch date with a guy who, just as lunch was served, brought out a baggie containing about 20 vitamin pills which he proceeded to pop with every mouthful.



9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later? - That I only appear to be organised!
- December 19th, 2008, 04:16 am
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Pos65, wrote :

1) Do you sing in the shower?
2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past?
3) What are you most afraid of?
4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy?
5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!)
6) Do you think you are sexy?
7) Do you think I am sexy?
8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date?
9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later?

1) Yes, I sing in the shower, in the car, everywhere


2.) Marrying my ex-husband


3.) That no one will ever want me and I will be single forever


4.) Our local grocery store. I would buy enough for our needs, then the rest I would spend to donate to needy families and/or food pantries. Why- because I know what it's like to have been in need, and I made a vow before God to help others who are in need as much as I am able to.


5) I'm sure he already knows; no need to post it here


6) Absolutely


7) One of Rod Stewart's biggest hits


8) Well, this wasn't a first date- we hadn't met yet- but in an IM chat a guy I was interested in shared that he was a cross dresser, and spent the rest of the chat trying to convince me that was normal. Needless to say, it was a brief chat after that.


9)I wear a partial plate.I don't ever want anyone to see me without it. Ever.
- December 19th, 2008, 05:08 am
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1) Do you sing in the shower?


Absolutely... and with verve too!


2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past?


Have you seen my profile pic... do you REALLY want to know?


3) What are you most afraid of?





Greatest fear huh.... not choosing wisely!



4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy?


Isn't a Mall just a big store? I'd probably pick something that I could allow friends and family to share in too. Maybe Williams & Sonoma as I love to cook!


5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!)


I'd love to get together with Rollingrock & PY... what a great Jam session it would be. Everyone could come... We could fire up a blender and get juiced! I'd have to say that I'd love to meet every member of the CSC Gang without question or exception, Peg099 because she has such integrity and a heart of gold! Panda20 & Lucky173 because I completely respect them and they are very cute! and Altair, because of her style, wit and edge! Ok... I know that isn't one, but you guys know by now that I just can't shut up! I want to meet them all! What a great, varied and interesting group of people!


6) Do you think you are sexy?


Yes


7) Do you think I am sexy?


Yes... intelligence is very sexy and your posts are very intelligent!


8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date?


Not odd so much, but there was very litttle about the date that I didn't know... in fact.. it's all she talked about!


9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later?


I'm a completely open book so there is little I want to conceal.
- December 19th, 2008, 07:28 am
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1) Do you sing in the shower? Sometimes


2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past? Weird? To whom?


3) What are you most afraid of? Bugs


4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy? Wherever I could get the most bang for my buck & buy toys for underprivileged children & donate them to Toys for Tots


5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!) Wow! There are so many I'd love to meet for dinner! All of the CSC gang for sure & anyone else who's on my friends list & several who aren't (because the freakin' friends requests don't work).


6) Do you think you are sexy? Sometimes


7) Do you think I am sexy? I don't know, are you?


8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date? Well, not a first date, but a good friend told me about his sister being murdered the first time we went to lunch together.


9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later? I'm pretty open about things, so maybe that they may think some of my family were raised by wolves.


- December 19th, 2008, 07:47 pm
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1) Do you sing in the shower?
Absolutely! And I'm that freak singing in the car next to you, too.



2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past?
I guess getting up on stage and singing in front of 400 people at my ex's company Christmas party. To my credit, I was on the verge of leaving him and alcohol was involved. And I can actually sing. Or so my mom says.



3) What are you most afraid of?
Drowning. There's just a point where you have to decide to breathe the water in and die.



4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy?
Target because I'd STILL want to get my money's worth. CDs and clothes and a huge TV and shoes and all kinds of electronic stuff and...



5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!)
I only get to pick one? That's not fair!



6) Do you think you are sexy?
Most days, not all of them.



7) Do you think I am sexy?
You'rea tree! I'm just not into fooling around with conifers anymore. Now back in the 80s...



8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date?
That he was deathly afraid of cotton balls. No, seriously.



9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later?
Can't say that one in a public forum. But it's not a bad thing...


- December 19th, 2008, 08:27 pm
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Thanks for playing kids!! Only having 9 questions was intentional - I'm usually too, um, logical (ya, that's a good description) to end a list on an odd number. Have to try to change that.....


Just thought I'd toss this out here to get a break from the I'm too big/small/tall/poor/old/young threads. There are nowrong answers (well, except for #7 and thankfully no one answered "no way, you're a troll"!!) so there's nothing for anyone to argue about.


An interesting outcome (unintended) is too see how the questions were handled - answered with very serious, logical replies; replies that expand the parameters of the question; honesty, sincerity, humorous, graceful etc...


It's fun to see personalities shine this way.......(well, for me anyway) And it's all about ME, right? **ok, i'm not in the CSC threads right now so let me add the disclaimer that I was joking about it being all about me)














- December 19th, 2008, 08:32 pm
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I'm trying SO hard to be patient, but why am I such a modbot target lately? I'm trying my best to behave myself!


- December 19th, 2008, 09:01 pm
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Pos65, wrote :

1) Do you sing in the shower?
2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past?
3) What are you most afraid of?
4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy?
5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!)
6) Do you think you are sexy?
7) Do you think I am sexy?
8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date?
9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later?

1) Do you sing in the shower? No but I was a disc jockey, so sometimes I announce songs in the shower.



2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past?Going to a Yankees/Mets game at Yankee Stadium and rooting for the Mets.



3) What are you most afraid of? Going blind.



4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy? Dealership to buy a new car.



5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!) One who is female and likes to wear dresses.



6) Do you think you are sexy? Average



7) Do you think I am sexy? Do not know you.



8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date? Saliva



9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later? Not saying, but I know what it is.
- December 19th, 2008, 09:13 pm
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Pos65, wrote :

1) Do you sing in the shower?
2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past?
3) What are you most afraid of?
4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy?
5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!)
6) Do you think you are sexy?
7) Do you think I am sexy?
8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date?
9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later?

1) Yes. Just about everywhere.


2) There are just too many things that can go on that list. But one involved being covered in chocolate and whipped cream (non-sexually, I promise)


3) I am most of afraid of being left behind and all the people I love are dead or gone.


4) Target and everything that I can get my hands on. Presents for everyone!


5) I have no idea.


6) Am I sexy? Probably, but since I dont go for girls. LOL.


7) You, as far as I can tell, are a Christmas tree. Not into inanimante objects.


8) Random stories in which I have no idea where they are coming from. I get them all the time. I just have that face. I dont know.


9) My family is crazy. I love them to death and they are great, but if Im going to be with such person, they are going to have to amazing if not, Hell hath no fury like my family.
- December 19th, 2008, 09:32 pm
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1) Do you sing in the shower? Only if nobody can hear me.


2) What is the weirdest thing you will admit to having done in past? Sticking to the past year, I signed my divorce papers on our 10th anniversary, then signed up for eHarmony on my ex's birthday (all without realizing it)








3) What are you most afraid of? Spiders, and little bits of lint that look like spiders





4) If you had a $10,000 shopping spree and could only pick one store to shop in - where would it be and what would you buy? A furniture store for sure--you would think I was a student still if you saw what I've got





5) Which eHa poster would you like to meet for dinner (not a date - unless you want it to be!) Aussie Devilette, but it would absolutely have to be a restaurant where she lives






6) Do you think you are sexy? Yes some days, but mostly no


7) Do you think I am sexy? if you think you are sexy, I think you are sexy





8) What is the oddest thing someone has shared with you on a first date? Body odor


9) What is the one thing you don't want a date to know about you until....later? Actually I'm a pretty open book, but my family sure does know how to embarrass me and someone who's justa date isn't going to meet them.
- December 19th, 2008, 10:14 pm
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