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Cheating is a difficult subject. I have never done it & most likely never will. But I can definitely understand it in certain circumstances.


I do know of married couples that literally have sex only a few times per year. They may love each other on every other level but this can be very hard to take. Do you leave your spouse or your family?? It just is not that simple.


If the sex life is good, then cheating is for far more selfish reasons.
- December 16th, 2008, 03:43 pm
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well, I've read through this whole thing, and in the past when I was very young and immature about relationships, I have cheated on a boyfriend. And I will tell you that, for me at the time, #9, #7, #6, #4 (working on all holidays), and #1 have all played a role in the reason for it. Now, if any of those issues came up in a future relationship, I would talk to my partner about it, and let him know that there are problems.
- December 16th, 2008, 04:36 pm
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