NextOnDeck is offline NextOnDeck Post #1  December 9,2008, 5:28pm
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Ok, so I've been in OC w/ a guy for a while now. I don't think we've really talked about anything in depth yet, just sort of going over your general getting to know you stuff. Well, I'm begining to think it's time we meet and see if there is any physical chemistry. I initiated contact with him in the beginning, but should I wait to see if he broaches the subject first, or should I just suggest it? And, if I should suggest it, how the heck do you do that? I'm so new to the online dating scene that I feel like I'm walking around in the dark looking for a light switch!


Any help would be great!!
 
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Cyclist_Steve is offline Cyclist_Steve Post #2  December 9,2008, 5:36pm
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considered it - and decided not to

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if you're ready - make the suggestion. don't worry about rules, you'll go crazy, instead of remembering these basic things.


have fun!


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remember- this is dating, not brain surgery.
 
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Cyclist_Steve is offline Cyclist_Steve Post #3  December 9,2008, 5:38pm
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sheesh - my typing tonight is horrible. still though, i think you get the idea
 
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If you want something, ask for it. Those rules they tell you about expect men to read our minds and even the most lovable men I have known were no good at that. If you want to meet him, ask him.


You might say "I really enjoy our conversations and would like to meet you for a coffee this weekend. Are you up for it?" and if he hems and haws and dithers, pull back a bit and don't spend too much time on the guy because otherwise you'll waste a lot of phone, text and/or IM time...and maybe have no chemistry with him in person.


Good luck!
 
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NextOnDeck is offline NextOnDeck Post #5  December 9,2008, 6:17pm
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Thanks! That's what I thought, but I just wanted to get someone else's opinion. Glad to know I'm not crazy.
 
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