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Seeing your significant other turn on the charm for a member of the opposite sex can make you feel insecure and angry. eHarmony Advice has a few tips for dealing with a partner who loves to flirt.
- December 6th, 2008, 03:34 pm
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If my dafe flirts with anyone but me, I walk. This girl or lady is showing disrespect and because I am a gentleman, I will let her know I'm leaving. Guys this is just plain rude but be polite then leave and don't even look back. Trust me. She will feel a lot worse than you.
- December 11th, 2008, 02:13 am
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Hey I once had a date who was flirting with girls when we went out and it was usually the waitress. So one night when there was a male I was flirting away. After that he never flirted on a date again.
- December 11th, 2008, 09:57 pm
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Dump him.
- December 11th, 2008, 10:30 pm
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eharmonyadvice, wrote :

Seeing your significant other turn on the charm for a member of the opposite sex can make you feel insecure and angry. eHarmony Advice has a few tips for dealing with a partner who loves to flirt.
I've got a tip . . . don't put up with it in the first place. I wouldn't have a partner that can't keep his ego in his pants when he's around other women. It's jus that simple.
- December 12th, 2008, 12:02 am
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my guy more than flirts. yes his flirting is one of the first things i noticed about him. but, he has gone way beyond just meer flirting. i overheard him flat out asking other women when they were going to hook up, etc.i dont know that he actually did hook up with them. but, god it hurts that he asked them.
- December 12th, 2008, 12:45 pm
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When you're calm, tell him how this behavior affects you (it doesn't move you closer to him in any way, shape or form). Then see if he does it again. If he does, you have to decide that you are worth being with a man who is going to be mature enough to do the things that make you happy. He sounds like an immature, self-centered person who will ultimately never have YOUR best interests at heart. The decision is yours.
- December 14th, 2008, 10:12 am
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If a guy/girl is a total flirt, it does not matter whether you start your discussion with him with a "You" or an "I", he/she will always be on a defensive side and will try to turn around the argument to his/her favor. Sometimes,I can't help but feel that it serves me right fortrying to ignore those inner whispers about him during the courtship stage. It is inherent to someperson andhe/she will never change.
- January 2nd, 2009, 07:22 am
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Male or female, don't put up with it. It's disrespectful, no matter how much the person tries to justify it. I ignored the signs early on and it was one of the worst mistakes I made. Love yourself first and foremost.
- January 17th, 2009, 08:58 am
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My partner doesnt even call me up so as i,i dont know why
- January 27th, 2009, 03:19 pm
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