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muffin top





I don't know what muffin top means, to me it sounds pretty yummy!!


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Oh no it's not yummy at all. Muffin top is what happens when low rise jeans are too tight and creates a "rollover" where the jeans meet - or don't meet - theshirt. It's especiallyspooky when the shirt does not cover the muffin top. Thisis not necessarily aweight problem - some non-overweight people have it as well. I think it comes for being out of shape as much as a weight issue.


What makes the top 3physical turnoffs for me is when a man wears a "wife beater", especially when worn in public. Not sure if this is a Canadian term and some of you are wondering what the h$ll I'm talking aboutbut it's a tank top for menandalsooccurs when the sleeves are ripped or cut off of aT-shirt. It usuallygoes hand in hand with the mullet. WOW that's NASTY


what if it's a black or charcoal ribbed beater & it shows off your ink during the summer months?


I'd look past it......I'll bet you look hot in anything


hey thanks but i'm really not hot...sexy? yes. hot? i've been called it before but i don't see myself as hot, no.


also, why are people talking about completely off topic turn offs? BIGGEST PHYSICAL TURN OFF. P-H-Y-S-I-C-A-L. yes, i can spell! bad teeth has been said which is a good example, someone's annying parents doesn't qualify, table manners doesn't qualify, etc
Oh yes - believe me and the others- you're sexy and HOT ***sizzle***


ooooops pardon me - I think I may be a "bit" older than you.......nonetheless a compliment should be given where a compliment is deserved ***would add a drooling smiley hereif the damn thing worked LOL***
- November 28th, 2008, 08:58 pm
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Definitely hate body odour, bad breath, dry, hard, calloused feet, dry, hard,callousedhands, dirty fingernails, bad skin, andthick, bushy eyebrows that are so longyou can actually comb the hair. LOL
- November 28th, 2008, 10:06 pm
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I would have attacked him with my blackhead extractor! I hate blackheads! Eww!


For me it is bad teeth. Ew. Ew. Ew. I have noticed that bad teeth and bad breath go hand in hand. When people have bad breath I literatly gag then offer them gum. It's a character flaw I guess... I am not shy about letting you know that I dislike your mouth odor.
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- November 29th, 2008, 05:00 pm
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Wow....the bad hygiene experiences some of you have had really is scary. Makes me appreciate the metro-sexual NY men more!


(butI still hate those darn 'man-purses'!)
- November 29th, 2008, 06:32 pm
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I tend to be turned off by anything that isn't natural in appearance on a man (facial tattoos, nose piercings, tons of hair gel, obvious nose-jobs, etc.)
- November 29th, 2008, 07:24 pm
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So it looks like everyone is in agreement on the personal hygeine thing, but I just realized one big turn off for me today that I didn't see on this thread: MOUSTACHES. I absolutely hate them! Beard/goatee okay, just a moustache, no way!


I have even had in a friend (male)in the past that I didn't even see as a romantic possibilty until the day he turned up with that thing shaved off. Any other ladieshave thoughts on this?
- November 29th, 2008, 07:25 pm
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The biggest physical turn off for me is when I go out with a woman who shows a lot of cleavage but then I find out she has a p_e_n_i_s.


Other than that, I find if the person is interesting enough, I can adjust to many physical issues. Now if they have multiple problems, that's another story.
- November 29th, 2008, 07:30 pm
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MelinCali wrote :

So it looks like everyone is in agreement on the personal hygeine thing, but I just realized one big turn off for me today that I didn't see on this thread: MOUSTACHES. I absolutely hate them! Beard/goatee okay, just a moustache, no way!


I have even had in a friend (male)in the past that I didn't even see as a romantic possibilty until the day he turned up with that thing shaved off. Any other ladieshave thoughts on this?
Mustaches are so 70s porn movie. They are so gross!!!


I would say my biggest physical turn offs are - moobs, unibrows, beer bellies, bad skin, and guys who don't know how to dress themselves. I don't want to see the color of your socks - buy longer pants. Don't tuck your t-shirt into your jeans- you look like a geek.
- November 29th, 2008, 08:12 pm
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Turn-offs for me are bad teeth and hygiene. I also dislike moustaches and too much hair on a guy. I make an exception for hairy chests though. Very sexy to me for some reason.
- November 29th, 2008, 09:28 pm
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Really short guys


Shoes and no socks, unless they're flip-flops


Guys who incessantly stare at you
- November 30th, 2008, 01:19 am
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