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trueblueyes is offline trueblueyes Post #11  November 9,2008, 8:23am
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I have an innate curious nature and am always trying to learn new things.* What makes people tick fascinates me.[/quote]When you figure it out let me know!
 
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trueblueyes,331400 wrote :

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I have an innate curious nature and am always trying to learn new things. What makes people tick fascinates me.

When you figure it out let me know![/quote]

It is a never ending study, but it is fascinating
 
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I don't have a clue either. As poster said earlier, guys do it too. I would just have to add that those that are serious take their matches seriously and everybody else must be just playing around. I'm like you Gr8Guy, I send questions to those I'm interested in; promptly close everyone else. Just doesn't cease to amaze me that guys won't answer those first questions for naught. I guess you can just close them too. I dunno . . .
 
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I'm not sure what the answer is.


I've never done it myself but guys have done it often enough to me. Either they don't like my profile and they're too busy or too lazy to close or they don't like the questions that I've sent and they're too busy or too lazy to close. Sometimes, guys will send me their first set of questions, I'll answer them, and then send my first set of questions. After I've sent my first set of answers I never hear from them again. I just figure they didn't like the answers I've given them (or they're too busy or too lazy to close or send their answers).


All I can say is keep trying; eventually someone will turn up that goes all the way to open communication. Either that or go back to my old stand by of the grocery store line up or coffee shop to strike up conversations. These can lead to better relationships than many of the ones I've encountered on eH.
 
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i don't worry about my matches anymore. there's tons of hotties!!! here on advice. i focus on getting all their pictures and email addresses =0P


seriously tho... send them the initial communication and don't think about it. if they bite, great... if they don't... who cares?
 
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Hi,


If you send questions to a girl and she looks at your profile without responding - that means she isn't interested and you should close her and clear your screen for someone else.


It's not a question of what she is thinking - it is that she isn't thinking : )
 
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LonelyStarState,331467 wrote :

i don't worry about my matches anymore. there's tons of hotties!!! here on advice. i focus on getting all their pictures and email addresses =0P


seriously tho... send them the initial communication and don't think about it. if they bite, great... if they don't... who cares?
+1 Gazillion on both.
 
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She could be on the fence or someone who made a profile and hasn't subscribed for full service.
 
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livinagin,331435 wrote :

I don't have a clue either. As poster said earlier, guys do it too. I would just have to add that those that are serious take their matches seriously and everybody else must be just playing around. I'm like you Gr8Guy, I send questions to those I'm interested in; promptly close everyone else. Just doesn't cease to amaze me that guys won't answer those first questions for naught. I guess you can just close them too. I dunno . . .
I just hate to close out hotties. Particularly the ones with great legs andwear sandals
 
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WOW! Gr8Guyn2008, you have become quite the flirt. Or perhaps, this is just the real you coming to the surface.


Didn't you have a date last night?I mean you did mention it, right? So what gives? Dish, please.


As someone else said the lookers may not be current subscribers. That is why they may have RelyID and PPersonality Plus, too. These ladies were paying members, maybe just not anymore.


Soooooo, was the date good?
 
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