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FFN is offline FFN Post #1  November 8,2008, 7:27am
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Good suggestion. I had a friend who said that the key to finding girls was to expose yourself--then he realized how that sounded, turned a bright red and clarified that he meant that you can't find girls sitting at home--you have to be out doing things and joining groups.
 
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dennis, i use to tell all my rookie officers "where ever you go, act like you own the place". its a great confidence booster. yeah, sometimes you go to them and sometimes they come to you. either way, who cares?


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What is the cure for guys who think they finish last?


Action. Be a man of action. Men of action are neutral, nice but not too nice… they get things done. Women like that. Be attentive but let them come to you sometimes. Be consistent but not too predictable. Surprise them and say nice things about them.


Quit being so introspective. Forget about your insecurities and how you are feeling for a change and be aware of what they want. Go about your business and then have fun. Women want to know that you have other things to do besides sitting around thinking about them all the time.




Try this on for starters...
 
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DennisWisconsin, wrote :

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Go about your business and then have fun. Women want to know that you have other things to do besides sitting around thinking about them all the time.

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But I don't have anything else to do.








Oh, wait maybe I do
 
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DennisWisconsin, wrote :
What is the cure for guys who think they finish last?


Action. Be a man of action. Men of action are neutral, nice but not too nice… they get things done. Women like that. Be attentive but let them come to you sometimes. Be consistent but not too predictable. Surprise them and say nice things about them.


Quit being so introspective. Forget about your insecurities and how you are feeling for a change and be aware of what they want. Go about your business and then have fun. Women want to know that you have other things to do besides sitting around thinking about them all the time.




Try this on for starters...
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LonelyStarState,328822 wrote :

dennis, i use to tell all my rookie officers "where ever you go, act like you own the place". its a great confidence booster.
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DennisWisconsin, wrote :


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Go about your business and then have fun. Women want to know that you have other things to do besides sitting around thinking about them all the time.

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But I don't have anything else to do.








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Really, just be yourself. There is someone (maybe even more than one person) for everyone. Dating is trial and error - through dating experiences, you learn what works, and what doesn't. I've found that having female friends has helped me to understand women better. But don't jump too far out of your skin to try to win a woman who isn't worth the time. Fight the urge to get hung up on physical attraction; good looks often tempt people to "cut corners" in developing winning personalities suitable for a serious relationship. This goes for men as well as women.
 
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DennisWisconsin, wrote :
What is the cure for guys who think they finish last?


Action. Be a man of action. Men of action are neutral, nice but not too nice… they get things done. Women like that. Be attentive but let them come to you sometimes. Be consistent but not too predictable. Surprise them and say nice things about them.


Quit being so introspective. Forget about your insecurities and how you are feeling for a change and be aware of what they want. Go about your business and then have fun. Women want to know that you have other things to do besides sitting around thinking about them all the time.




Try this on for starters...
Why Dennis! You're actually getting the hang of all this! You're talking "balance". What a concept. Impressive!
 
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