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bewilder is offline bewilder Post #1  October 25,2008, 7:41pm
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I 'm onphone calls,with a women for little over a month, there Is no picture of her posted, I enjoy talking to her ,we have things In common,so here Is the million dollar question,I would like to ask her ,for a picture, without offending her, how do you ask a women this question? I all ready asked another women the same question, and I got a paragraph for an answer, and no photo,I'm aware Is taboo to ask women these type of question, This Is driving me crazy, wondering what she looks like, I dont even know her hair color!! confused
 
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rr4 is offline rr4 Post #2  October 25,2008, 7:45pm
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Tell her that you are tired of jacking off to your imagination every night and would like to do something more real.
 
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BTW, she may be a he.
 
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I 'm onphone calls,with a women for little over a month, there Is no picture of her posted, I enjoy talking to her ,we have things In common,so here Is the million dollar question,I would like to ask her ,for a picture, without offending her, how do you ask a women this question? I all ready asked another women the same question, and I got a paragraph for an answer, and no photo,I'm aware Is taboo to ask women these type of question, This Is driving me crazy, wondering what she looks like, I dont even know her hair color!! confused
Has she seen a picture of you? If you haven't shared one with her, then I dont think you have any grounds to ask until you offer one up yourself.


It is possible she has no way of sharing a pic electronically. Perhaps you should just meet up for a date. Nothing better than assessing if you like a woman than in person


If you don't want to meet up before seeing her picture, then tell her that you've enjoyed talking to her, are feeling a connection and would like to see what she looks like. Ask her if she'd be able to send you a picture.
 
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justkateagain is offline justkateagain Post #5  October 25,2008, 7:51pm

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Shut the f up, rr. Leave the newbies alone. Unless you're playing with yourself again??
 
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gr8galmv is offline gr8galmv Post #6  October 25,2008, 7:52pm
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It isn't taboo and it is perfectly rational to ask a girl whom you have been talking to on the phone a photo of herself. If you're looking for just an e-friend, then fine, no photo necessary. But I assume that you are actually on eHarmony, a dating website, and not on The Dating Game show where you didn't see the girl until you decided to have a date with her.


Ask for the photo and if she doesn't for whatever reason provide one you it is perfectly acceptable to bow out from any further communication. You're not being cruel, mean or superficial for wanting to see what she looks like. The physical matters in dating. It's not everything but it certainly isn't nothing.
 
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flocondeneige,309103 wrote :


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It is possible she has no way of sharing a pic electronically. Perhaps you should just meet up for a date. Nothing better than assessing if you like a woman than in person


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And if I have not seen a photo of her how will I be able to find her in the crowed when we meet?


I am thinking that if someone leads such an isolated life that they have no way to get a photo in e-mail and send it to me I might not want to date them anyway.
 
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rr4,309096 wrote :

BTW, she may be a he.
Could be. For certain she has something to hide if she won't share a photo.
 
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cp30 is offline cp30 Post #9  October 25,2008, 7:57pm

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Its perfectly acceptable to ask to see a photo at this stage. It would have been acceptable long before the phone.
 
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justkateagain is offline justkateagain Post #10  October 25,2008, 7:58pm

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Good grief, John.


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