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ImmanuelInMyHeart is offline ImmanuelInMyHeart Post #31  October 12,2008, 2:08pm
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GuyintheGap,289985 wrote :

Ask Your significant other heart felt questions and actually listen to the answers. And if you failto find this key on your own or trusting someone else to find it for you, just rember that there is a Creator of all these elements that will give it to you for free if you only seek for it.
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yeoww, wrote :

At the suggestion of another member of the forum here, I'm interested in hearing what you all think the key to happiness is in the context of the dating/relationship world. I'll start:


"The key to happiness is lowered expectations." (I'm kinda kidding, kinda not...)


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I think *my* key to happiness on here is just realizing that this isn't really a matchmaking endeavor as much as eHarmony wants you to believe it is. It's just a means of making introductions that might not normallytake place.


The whole 29 dimension thing - I'm a bit skeptical considering some of my matches!
 
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ImmanuelInMyHeart,291143 wrote :


GuyintheGap,289985 wrote :


Ask Your significant other heart felt questions and actually listen to the answers. And if you failto find this key on your own or trusting someone else to find it for you, just rember that there is a Creator of all these elements that will give it to you for free if you only seek for it.


Hint, hint.


So let me get this straight. Some invisible man living in the sky watches everything you and everyone else does every day --and he a special list of ten things that he wants you to never ever do. And if you do any of these ten things, he has a special place for you filled with fire, smoke, brimstone, burning, pain, suffering, torture and agony and he's going to send YOU there to writhe in pain, misery, anger, sorrow and desperationforever until the end of time because he loves you so much!

I tried to believe that there is a God that watches us every minute of every day, honestly -- but look at what has encompassed this planet over the last six thousand years. War, famine, hunger, filth, plague, death, terrorism, destruction, crime, corruption, desolation, poverty, disease, cancer, AIDS,natural disasters,and The Jonas Brothers! Doesn't him trying to find you a significant other, at the very least, sound like a "B"-list priority, especially when you ask him on a Sunday, which is supposed to be his day off? Doesn't that seem like the friend who's always coming over and borrowing pepper and toilet paper every day? You want to help him out but after a while, it seems likethis neighbor isimposing on a friend. You can pray all you want but you also have to put yourself out there, otherwise you're not going to find it. God is not going to send that horny waitressthat you've admired since 10th grade to your house one day just because you pray to him to bring her to you.


Results like THIS do not belong on a supreme being's resume. This sounds more like the work of an office temp with a split personality! I use the word "he" referring to God becauseI firmly believe that there is no way any woman would ever screw up this badly. The only other logical explanation I can think of is that he doesn't give a crap -- that would explain most of these things.

If there is a Heaven, honestly -- and there aren't naked female angels up there. I got news for you -- there ain't a point in going. Do you want to know why? Do you know that feeling you get when you haven't had a date in a few months? Multiply that feeling of solitude by 200 million and that's what you'd get if you can't get any naked angels up there, buddy.
 
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The key to happiness is to understand you will never be fully happy.


Human nature is to be greedy, want more of everything, happiness included.

When you start to look at yourself and be happy with just who you are, without a single possesion (friends, family, home, car, money, etc). You, yourself, have established the key to happiness.

Unforunately, most people have to go through the experience of losing all of their possesions and material items to realize what the value of happiness is.
 
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I don't know. If you find that "key" can I make a copy?
 
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