They're attracted to me, I'm not to them....


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sundaegirl1967 is offline sundaegirl1967 Post #1  September 27,2008, 4:33pm
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Face it, there has to be some sort of physical attraction....why is it the men I'm attracted to don't seem to be as attracted to me, and vice versa?????
 
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sundaegirl1967, wrote :

Face it, there has to be some sort of physical attraction....why is it the men I'm attracted to don't seem to be as attracted to me, and vice versa?????

I completely agree and want to know myself.
 
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good looking men
 
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JAZZYJO is offline JAZZYJO Post #4  February 9,2009, 10:46am

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The man I loved most in this world was not attractive to me the first time I dated him. I told my friends I didnt think he was cute at all. By date 2 I thought he was the cutest guy I had every seen, because his little personality made his looks . Give em a try-- one never knows! jojo
 
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sundaegirl1967, wrote :

Face it, there has to be some sort of physical attraction....why is it the men I'm attracted to don't seem to be as attracted to me, and vice versa?????

Have you tried to get past physical appearance. Some of the good qualities do not necessarily come from the best looks.


Going to be truthful here, not trying to be hurtful. It seems as though you are a shallow person. Granted, morbidly obese is not a trait that one can get by easily.


I am overweight, that is held against me, but I am not going to worry about it because the women are missing out on a good thing, I have lots of good things to offer that physical appearance has nothing to do with.
 
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That physical attraction you are placing so much emphasis could lead to trouble. I know of two girls that had that happen. One girl married mister baby faceand ended up with a wife beater. The other one ended up with the life of the party who flirted with everyone and could not hold down a job.
 
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Do you have some detail to add to your OP?


Are you trying to reach “out of your league?”


Is there something unusual in what you seek, compared to who you are?
 
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Divingirl is offline Divingirl Post #8  February 9,2009, 1:32pm

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The problem with really beautiful people is that everybody else wants them... they will always be tempted.


I now want an ordinary, truly average man who has a sweet heart and loves me like crazy. I will be good to him and it should be great. (My latest hypothesis!)
 
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