dk07 is offline dk07 Post #1  February 28,2008, 8:59am
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I had what I thought wasa successful first date last night...how long do I wait to follow up or do I wait for him to contact me?
 
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You should call as soon as you reach your car, once more when you get home - so he knows you made it home safe.

It's a good idea to call before going to sleep, so you can have some phone-sex at that time.
 
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Welcome to the boards, DK!

If you haven't already done so, send him an email, thanking him for a lovely time. Men always appreciate this gesture.

It is certainly acceptable to send an email of this nature, right after your date, or sometime the next day. There's no such thing as too soon.

And, if you're comfortable, go ahead and suggest a second date. Have a specific activity, date, and time in mind. This will let him know where you stand, so he doesn't have to guess.

Best of luck to you!

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Welcome to the boards, DK!

If you haven't already done so, send him an email, thanking him for a lovely time. Men always appreciate this gesture.

It is certainly acceptable to send an email of this nature, right after your date, or sometime the next day. There's no such thing as too soon.

And, if you're comfortable, go ahead and suggest a second date. Have a specific activity, date, and time in mind. This will let him know where you stand, so he doesn't have to guess.

Best of luck to you!

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It is permissible to call whenever you want, this shows that you are interested.
 
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Gr8Guyn2008 wrote :
It is permissible to call whenever you want, this shows that you are interested.
I agree, but if he is interested believe me he will call. Though, it is never wrong to let him know that you are most definitely interested.

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