david9091 is offline david9091 Post #1  September 25,2008, 7:39am
david9091's Avatar

is happy.

Newbie

Joined: Sep 2008

usa

Posts: 3

See profile



I have had a 6 month relationship whth a philippino woman and am not sure if she is being true to me. What should i do. How do i resolve this issue. What are the questions I need to have the ancers to?
 
  Reply With Quote
robv_la is offline robv_la Post #2  September 26,2008, 3:48pm
robv_la's Avatar

Looking forward to another snow season

Veteran

Joined: Aug 2008

Long Beach, CA

Posts: 1,333

See profile



Long distance relationships don't work. Even if you try really hard, the distance after a while takes a heavy toll on the relationship by undermining intimacy and trust.


It's not worth the hassle. Even if you used to live closer when you first dated, long distance will eventually kill a relationship.


 
  Reply With Quote
jayjay is offline jayjay Post #3  September 26,2008, 3:52pm
jayjay's Avatar

...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

Sage

Joined: Jun 2008

Brownsville, TX

Posts: 10,932

See profile



David....you have to be REALLY REALLY (can't stress this enough) careful and even skeptical regarding getting involved with women from other countries. It's VERY common for women (and they might not even be women) to have 'relationships' going with several or multiple men that they get to send them money. If with your girl there's been ANY mention of money...then GET OUT now...don't even ask any questions.
 
  Reply With Quote
123GoGirl is offline 123GoGirl Post #4  September 27,2008, 3:36am
123GoGirl's Avatar

knows that true love does exist

Newbie

Joined: Apr 2008

NYC

Posts: 37

See profile



David,


Don't listen to these negative ideas about long distance relationships. They can work. They do work. The real thing is that you have to have met the person before you can really know them, and then you can begin to consider it as a relationship. Before you meet, you're just penpals.


 
  Reply With Quote
Reply


Topic Tools Search this Thread
Search this Thread:

Advanced Search

Posting Rules
You may not post new topics
You may not post replies
You may not post attachments
You may not edit your posts
BB code is On
Smilies are On
[IMG] code is On
HTML code is On
Trackbacks are On
Pingbacks are On
Refbacks are Off

Looking for a Great Relationship?

Get started now. Fill out this form and take the questionnaire to receive your matches.

First Name:

I'm a:
seeking

Postal Code:

Country:

Email:

Confirm Email:

Password:


How did you hear about us?


Latest on our Dating Advice Discussion Boards

“ ...90%????? I'd say it's more like 60 to 70 percent of women who say they offer to pay on the first and subsequent dates, and/or have no problem with going dutch. I'm in the pool of women who ... ” –  legend29

Join the “who pays?” discussion

“I think you were there when he was hurting, and she was there when he wanted fun. He chose fun as a long term partner. That's understandable. The posters who've said you might be a reminder of the ... ” –  lynntlb78

Join the “Reuniting with EX” discussion

“ I know exactly where you are coming from. I went in thinking "man, it is just an email. Fire off a response, yeah or nay. What is the big deal?" but the truth is a little more complicated. Plus, I ... ” –  Freezepop

Join the “Guided Communication VS Email” discussion

“ I believe you and I got confused for a second. I didn't hit the Police officer. I hit the lady in front of me and then someone reported the accident and he came to check it out. That's how I met ... ” –  LadyVee

Join the “Confusing Man (LONG STORY)” discussion

“My bf just gave me advice about an adult child. I was in shock. He's never done that before. I didn't think he cared at all. The advice was really good too. It was supportive and I could see ... ” –  harnomygirl

Join the “Off -Topic” discussion



All times are GMT -8. The time now is 4:32pm.


Powered by vBulletin® Version 3.8.4
Copyright ©2000 - 2012, vBulletin Solutions, Inc.
Search Engine Friendly URLs by vBSEO 3.6.0