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I also can't help but wonder why a guy who claims to have found a gorgeous woman is still busy working the dating sites.








Maybe because, like me, he's interested in the discussions? Perhaps he thinks he can help out some other people? Being active on the boards here doesn't have any connection at all with actively using the matching service (or, for that matter, with being a member at all).


I'm speaking here as another "guy who claims to have found a gorgeous woman" (but, unlike the OP, I recognize that looks do matter, to a degree at least, to everybody).


Yah right...


*SOME* men read "Playboy" just for the articles.





You do understand that, don't you?





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- September 22nd, 2008, 01:17 pm
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abnoba wrote :

At the end of the day what the OP noticed was that he found himself with a gorgeous girl. So I guess looks really do matter. I also can't help but wonder why a guy who claims to have found a gorgeous woman is still busy working the dating sites.


BTW your friends are not likely to tell you that your girl friend is not very good looking. These kind of situations always call on us to diplomatically lie. I mean who would ever tell a friend that his or her mate was a dog?

Spot on! I get so sick of people saying of the person their with , stuff like this. If she'd been a dog he's have said "see ya" and never done that again. Looks matter. Looks get you things. Sorry. Not fair, not right, ect. THEY matter. It is what it is. It's well and fine after you're attracted to someone to see I knew.
- September 22nd, 2008, 01:27 pm
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Looks absolutely matter alot to me. If I can't look at my woman and say OMG SHE IS SO HOT I WANT HER NOW, then it won't work because it would be an injustice to have it any other way. If I can look at a complete stranger and be very attracted to them because of their appearance, should my wife or girlfriend not have equal or greater attraction?


If the person you're with doesn't look good to you, you're settling for less because everyone knows people that look good to them.
- September 23rd, 2008, 09:19 pm
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lendingahelpinghand, wrote :

. I had no clue what she looked like until after we started dating. (yes she knew what I looked like.) After we started dating thats when I asked for a picture of her.

How did you start to date someone without seeing her? did you go on the date blindfolded?
- September 23rd, 2008, 10:41 pm
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