richey is online now richey Post #161  January 28,2010, 7:24pm
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dustyJo,

Love the post! Thank you for trying to help interpret "womanese" for us fellas. Now, what I will say is that most guys have no problem with any of the above... provided it is coming back to us as well!

Soooooooo.....

We like to know when you are interested. As do us men. So the coy "hard to get" thing? Yeah, not so appreciated or attractive to us men.

Please do not ask for our number if you do not plan on calling. Agreed. Don't give us a number if you don't want us to call. don't give us a fake number. don't tell us to call when you aren't feeling it.

Little gestures do mean alot. Agreed!

We know you are bachelors but mess is a big turn off for most women and animals. Actually, I've noticed animals seem to love messes!!! I have a cute picture of my cat Charlie who "decorated" the entire apt with the packing popcorn of a box I had received while I was at work. he had a BALLLLLL that day with it everywhere! (As well as unrolling the TP all over the apt!)

Be yourself... Absolutely! don't act like you're not hungry when you are. don't order salad and water when you normally would order steak and a coke.

Richey
 
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richey wrote :
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We like to know when you are interested. As do us men. So the coy "hard to get" thing? Yeah, not so appreciated or attractive to us men.
And then they wonder why he doesn't call
 
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OKAY, I have lived in Boston my entire life, aside for the 5 years I traveled all over the world. I have dated many men from Boston, and here is a pointer all women would love to see:

STEP IT UP BOYS.
 
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