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Hi all... I need some advice here. So here it goes...


I met up with a girl this past week. I met her off of eharmony. Sparks seemed to fly on the meet and I had a great time. Deep, deep eye contact from her all night. So, the next day she sent me a text message saying she had a good time.


Fast forward to today, have not talked to her since. Should Iinitiate any contact? Any games she may be playing? We really havent had a lot phone conversations.


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- July 25th, 2008, 06:05 am
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Be an adult - don't play games. If you like her, call her!
- July 25th, 2008, 04:24 pm
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You should call. It's not a bad thing to call, just don't get clingy and desperate and call her every day or every other day. Desperation reeks to everyone.
- July 25th, 2008, 04:38 pm
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Man, all you can do is be direct about how you feel. If you like her go for it. Don't play games.
- July 25th, 2008, 04:58 pm
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TexasChamp99, wrote :

Hi all... I need some advice here. So here it goes...


I met up with a girl this past week. I met her off of eharmony. Sparks seemed to fly on the meet and I had a great time. Deep, deep eye contact from her all night. So, the next day she sent me a text message saying she had a good time.


Fast forward to today, have not talked to her since. Should Iinitiate any contact? Any games she may be playing? We really havent had a lot phone conversations.


Thanks
I think you should give her a call. How else are you going to get to know her and really know how she might feel. That is the reason you both got on eharmony for was to find you match. Go for it. She could be the one.
- July 25th, 2008, 06:18 pm
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CALL HER!
- July 27th, 2008, 01:08 am
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Hmm, i agree with the other posters...CALL HER...if you liked her it is the thing to do.


- July 27th, 2008, 09:50 am
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TexasChamp99, wrote :

Hi all... I need some advice here. So here it goes...


I met up with a girl this past week. I met her off of eharmony. Sparks seemed to fly on the meet and I had a great time. Deep, deep eye contact from her all night. So, the next day she sent me a text message saying she had a good time.


Fast forward to today, have not talked to her since. Should I initiate any contact? Any games she may be playing? We really havent had a lot phone conversations.


Thanks
Are you kidding? You had a good time. She had a good time. And you never called her again? You wonder if she is playing a game??? Call her for crying out loud. That's what you're supposed to do if you want to see her again.
- July 27th, 2008, 10:11 am
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Dude, if I was that girl, by now I'd be assuming you weren't interested in me! CALL HER!!!! And hope to God she hasn't moved on to her next match after thinking you didn't like her......Good luck, and keep us posted.
- July 27th, 2008, 03:14 pm
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CHASING=fruitlessly pursuing someone who is not reciprocating interest in you=BAD


You are not CHASING! If you are interested in more than just one date, then CALL HER and let her know! It is then up to her to reciprocate...if she starts ignoring your calls, not responding, or making lame excuses not to see you, then STOP. You do not know that yet!
- July 27th, 2008, 04:10 pm
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