nc050158 is offline nc050158 Post #1  February 7,2012, 5:17am
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I need advice.I meet this girl and she tells me she wants to wait for a year. She said her exs were impatient.So i think thats why she might of said that. I have been friends with her for about 2 months. But it feels like it has been longer. She even confessed to me that she does like me(multiple times). she says im a 9 out of 10 (10 meaning good). We talk like every day, using text message because she is deaf. But the only real time i got to spend with her lasted for like 10 minutes. She was blushing the whole time. and when before i left we hugged. I also dont live close to her. she is like 5 hours away from me but when she graduates she goes to college she will be 3 hours away. I am unsure of what i should do. I really like her. But I dont know if i should wait for a year or just give up. Please help!!!!! thank you.
 
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Write down her number in a safe place. This time next year, phone her and arrange to meet for sex.
 
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All you can do at this point is text, email etc....She is too far away for anything else...Good Luck...
nc050158 wrote :
I have been friends with her for about 2 months.

We talk like every day, using text message because she is deaf.

But the only real time i got to spend with her lasted for like 10 minutes.

she is like 5 hours away from me but when she graduates she goes to college she will be 3 hours away.
 
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Why would you give up if you really like her? Just because you're not getting any? Some people don't have sex for years while they're dating so a year shouldn't be very long if you really like her. You really don't know someone in 2 months time so she wants to get to know you and know that it's not just sex that you want from her. If that's all you want then you should move on because if you do get some goodies before her year time is up she might regret it because you pressured her into giving it up before she was ready. Be patient if you really like her, it will be worth it in the end.
 
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Continue being penpals with this one if you like, but make a point of dating others in the meantime. Youhavemet her once, hugged once. Asking you to wait for a year is a bit unusual. Asking you to wait a year and expecting you to not chase other options during that year is absurd.
 
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nc050158 wrote :
I need advice.I meet this girl and she tells me she wants to wait for a year. She said her exs were impatient.So i think thats why she might of said that. I have been friends with her for about 2 months. But it feels like it has been longer. She even confessed to me that she does like me(multiple times). she says im a 9 out of 10 (10 meaning good). We talk like every day, using text message because she is deaf. But the only real time i got to spend with her lasted for like 10 minutes. She was blushing the whole time. and when before i left we hugged. I also dont live close to her. she is like 5 hours away from me but when she graduates she goes to college she will be 3 hours away. I am unsure of what i should do. I really like her. But I dont know if i should wait for a year or just give up. Please help!!!!! thank you.
not to be obtuse but what does she want you to wait for?

sex?

exclusivity?

the "L" word?

a relationship?

it matters.
 
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