end of a perfect relationship ....and i don't know why

Then on Dec. 27th, we had a mis-understanding (our first, and btw, NEVER have a serious discussion via text, will almost always be mis-construed). Because of what was mis-typed, he was hurt, but even after trying to explain things and what was meant, he refused to talk with me and try to work thru things. What was said was minor, and certainly not something that should break up a relationship. But, we broke up. About a week or so later, we finally talked (although he still didn’t tell me why he had wanted to break up before), and said that we would start communicating and seeing each other again, taking things a little slower this time.

Then a week later, the nite before I thought we might have our next “date”, he sent me an email saying that “going out together isn’t a good idea, he doesn’t want to lead me on and have me hope that something would happen when he knows it won’t, he doesn’t want a relationship and he hopes I understand”.

I met this guy online in September, and since our second date, we both knew that it was going to be an important relationship. We immediately took our profiles offline and we off and running. He was everything I could ask for and more and he said that I made him really happy – he had said that “before me he was starting to think that he didn’t want or need anyone in his life, and I changed all that”.

The next few months were nothing but perfect, I met his family at Thanksgiving, we went away for a weekend in NYC at the beginning of December where he made everything happen that I could ever want. He's the sweetest, most thoughtful, caring and generous guy I've ever met. We never fought or argued. We agreed on all important aspects in life and we had talked about a future together. I couldn’t have asked for more of a connection with anyone – mentally, emotionally and physically. We had a great Christmas together where he met my family. He texted me later that night that “he had a great Christmas, and it was all because of you”. For three months, I was happier than I ever was in my entire life.

...Then on Dec. 27th, we had a mis-understanding (our first, and btw, NEVER have a serious discussion via text, will almost always be mis-construed). Because of what was mis-typed, he was hurt, but even after trying to explain things and what was meant, he refused to talk with me and try to work thru things. What was said was minor, and certainly not something that should break up a relationship. But, we broke up.

...About a week or so later, we finally talked (although he still didn’t tell me why he had wanted to break up before), and said that we would start communicating and seeing each other again, taking things a little slower this time.

...Then a week later, the nite before I thought we might have our next “date”, he sent me an email saying that “going out together isn’t a good idea, he doesn’t want to lead me on and have me hope that something would happen when he knows it won’t, he doesn’t want a relationship and he hopes I understand”.

...Problem is that I DON’T understand, I’m not sure how something minor turned into us breaking off an amazing relationship. And he won’t talk to me to explain why or how this happened.

...I joined eH last week thinking that it might help distract me and help me forget about him, but I am just not ready at all. He is still all I can think about and I know that I am still in love with him. Ironically, he just joined eH and we were matched up together two days ago. I don’t know if he’s doing it for the same reasons that I had, or if he really did somehow turn off all his feeling that he had for me. I can’t believe that he could do that after all we did and talked about together. I am really hurt and having a hard time dealing with it.

I know that no one here will have the answer that I’m looking for, only he knows why he made the decision to break up. I’m just so hurt and confused.