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tangochef is offline tangochef Post #31  January 27,2012, 6:57pm
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And to stay on the topic, I never thought of picking up a woman my whole life. I need to get to know somebody pretty well to even see if there is any spark. I look for a connection deeper than simple attraction to someone's face/body....
In order to get to know someone "pretty well" you have to "pick them up". In other words meet them, and convince them to go out with you in the first place.
 
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If you want to pick up someone you'll like after you get to know her, think of something you're interested in and talk about that. You must already know about smiling and saying hello, so I assume your question is about what to do next.

Let's say you have a passion about saving manatees. Talk to people who are watching them at the zoo and share your knowledge. You can start out speaking to almost anyone and she'll drift towards you if she shares the interest. In fact, you'll seem safer and friendlier.

You'll know you have something in common and if she likes you she won't let the conversation lag. It will be easier to get her to go out with you after that.
 
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dahlimema wrote :
I don't know the answer but here is a chuckle
When my son was 5 years old, all 3 of my niece's babysat him one day. I came home from work and they were so excited....this is what they taught him... they asked *J how do you pick up girls?
He said ....Hey baby baby wanna ride????
That's funny, Dahli. Thanks for the story.



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No one has ever thought of the women's restrooms? Don't forget either that we normally go there in pairs.

Seriously. OP, are you still in college? Are you working? And what are your hobbies? I agree with harmonygirl about shared interests. The best advice is to start talking to people that you either go to school with, or work with. And begin with either gender. I have always liked courteous men, and always say thank you if they either hold the door open for me, or will check the oil in my suv. I will even talk to counter people, or the people in line-if they look approachable. Course, that's a judgement call. But, I look at facial expressions first, and if the person looks friendly, then I will talk to them. If the person is approximately your age, ask them things that are pertinent to both of you. Are they going to school too? What's their major? Who do they like musically? What movies have they seen? yadayadayada.........this should help you get over your shyness.



Suzie PS, Then use these techniques on the girls you're interested in. Just start slow.
 
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