Goomph is online now GoomphAdvice Member-Moderator Post #21  January 30,2012, 7:36pm
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Unless you like games, move on ....
 
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Maybe he had something else going on that didn't work at the end and I am his backup... ew...
 
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Gaviota31 wrote :
Ok... Thanks everyone for the advice, which I followed and moved on...

I received an email this morning from Mr poofer saying how crazy week he'd had and how his daughter was sick ( she is only with him on the weekends according to what he had told me before...) he said he was thinking of me an thought He'd said hi....


Should I even reply?
NO!

Next time, spend less time emailing and set a date and time to meet. Don't postpone it for a month. I realize December had all the holidays, and perhaps for this match it wasn't realistic to meet up early on, but it is never a good idea to get caught in an email/phone/text loop where the meeting happens farther down the line.

Perhaps you won't feel like you've wasted so much time if you set up the meet much earlier in the process.

Good luck!
 
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