SunnyMG is offline SunnyMG Post #1  January 20,2012, 6:39pm
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Another whiney newbie here: I would appreciate critique on my profile and photos. None of the several men who've viewed my profile have contacted me, and none of the several that I've contacted have replied. I did not expect this high percentage of non-contact! So, trepidatiously I say, feedback welcomed!

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tink333 is offline tink333Advice Member-Moderator Post #2  January 20,2012, 9:24pm
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Sunny, you may want to read my response to Ravenli68. http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...ml#post1483248 (Frustrated)

It's most probably not you, but the way the system works. There are usually a lot more women in the system than there are men depending on your demographic, and if a guy is not a paid up member, he shows up in your matches, but you never hear from him unless there's a FCW.

I agree it stinks.
 
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Wiseman2 is online now Wiseman2 Post #3  January 21,2012, 2:58am
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You need to go to "using eHarmony" , and read the instructions on profile reviews. Also read some of the threads there to get an idea....Good Luck
 
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ScottInCA is offline ScottInCA Post #4  January 25,2012, 12:21am
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Don't feel too bad, I am 31/M and have contacted 33 women. Only 3 responded and out of those only got to must have cant stands before being closed or poofed on. Happens to everyone I guess.
 
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SunnyMG is offline SunnyMG Post #5  January 28,2012, 8:46pm
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Thanks for the encouragement and advice, everyone!
 
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