kasmineg27 is offline kasmineg27 Post #1  November 21,2011, 10:22am
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what's the general time frame to hear back after a first date. Since after the date he asked to meet up again
 
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Generally, within 72 hours. But it depends--on his interest, your behavior (for example, sending a post-date thank you and expressing interest in meeting again), and how busy he is (travel plans, holiday weekends).
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what's the general time frame to hear back after a first date. Since after the date he asked to meet up again

I expect a woman to maintain communication in the same manner and pace as she did prior to meeting, or perhaps a bit less if exclusivity seems to be happening.

If I plan a first meeting, I expect to receive a planned second meeting from her, prior to the next weekend. (It doesn't have to be for the next weekend, just by the next weekend.)

In the event I have paid a first meeting, she should send me a "thank you" and her second meeting invitation as soon as she is online and able to.
 
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In my mind the three day rule is dead. I call or at least text back the next day if I'm at all interested.
 
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My interest would decline with each passing day of silence.
 
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