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We all need to find someone who fits our core values. I don't think taking that much time away is healthy. Her track record would indicate that "she needs time", losing several close people in my life, taking 3 months off from someone who you feel is the "one" does not constitute she feels you are "the one". Sounds as if she is using you as a back up plan, in case what ever she is searching out does not work. How do you know she doesn't have someone else she is going on that trip with? If she loved you, then she would have wanted you with on the trip to asia. Follow her actions not her words. I would not wait, while your putting all your eggs in her basket. You may miss out on the one, who will love you equally as much, and isn't that more important?
 
 
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I am closing this thread since the Original Poster (OP) was asking for advice on a specific situation, and the thread is old (see date in the upper right of the first post).

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