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I met this man on e-harmony. We have been dating for 10 weeks! So far things have been great! He has children and so do I, so we don't get to see alot of each other but....we talk everyday & txt throughout the day. We always say good morning and good night and look forward to our weekends that we don't have the children!


We were suppose to go out tonight no real big plans...nothing set in stone! A few days ago he mentioned that his ex-wife wanted him to watch the boys and Friday? I told him that if he felt he needed to do that for her or the kids that was fine by me and I had no problem coming over and spending time with the him and the kids! He then said he wasn't sure he liked to think things over before he gave her answer?? o.k.


Then this morning I asked him if he had decided what he was going to do about watching the kids! He said "honey" would it be o.k. if I went out with so and so his close friend a bunch a guys wanted to go out tonight and he would like to go too!! I said sure go ahead. He said are you sure your not mad? "I was so scared to ask you because I didn't want you to be mad!? I don't usually get mad about things like that I know that everybody needs time with friends at some point!!


later he called me I was busy then i called him back he was busy said he would call back in a few. He never called back but he did txt me 3 hours later said he was watching a movie!! I txt back and said I wondered what happened to your few minutes? Then all in good fun I txt him and said he was probrably so excited about his date this evening that I slipped his mind! HA! LOL Then I got a response from him that floored me he txt "thanks Shiela" that's his ex-wife's name ??????? what the heck?? I txt and I said I hope you know I was only joking! and that him referring to me as his ex was hurtful and mean. I would never refer to him as my ex! he then txt back and said that when he got over to his friends house he would have him call me to confirm that he was with him??? I said that is so high school and not necessary! told him to have fun!! It's now 5 hours later and I've heard nothing!????





Help lay it on the line and let me know what you think? Honest or up to no good? He did promise to see me tomorrow though?? LOL
 
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