Truly un-datable :-)

In addition to the previous comments, I would say that online dating is not for everyone. It works well for people who can present themselves well in a profile and who can be engaging in introductory phone calls. That is not true for everyone, but it does not mean that other people are undatable.

I would recommend that you expand your social circle by joining activity groups that interest you. That way people can get to know you over a longer period of time.

Thank you so much for your replies!. It is great to see that other do pay attention to our thoughts and worries. I know I sounded a bit bitter on the first post but at this point I am content being at the point where I am at. What may have been a feeling of dismay and frustration is turning into a feeling of curiosity and intellectual awareness. I was just reading a different post on attractiveness and I see a common trend where attractiveness even on an electronic format such as an e-h profile, can be clearly sensed by females. A picture can tell a spell a thousand traits that are recognized in a fraction of a second. A electronic profile makes the capability of choosing a mate much more based on primal desirable instincts where the real value of the person may not even be a factor to consider. Now I am not referring to the actual process of meeting the person or talking on the phone which entail pre-aproval on your part, but rather that first fraction of a second decision that makes your finger click the left mouse button to reply or skip it the profile. There are an innumerable number of variables, however is the electronic format capable of enhancing a particular signal that other males lack, such as lack of facial symmetry, dimorphism, coupled with success or apparent income, amongst others which in return would make one male datable and the other un-datable. Whether in real life or electronically, the factor must be the same. I've had conversations with women in the past however, I find that woman choose other man since day one. This I find interesting, What is the true signal for choosing the mate and likewise the lack of such signal in a non-datable men when there seem to be not detrimental reason to not choose a him. :-P