Not Interested or Playing Hard to Get?

Hi everyone,

Hi everyone,

I'm a senior in high school and there's a girl in some of my classes that I'm interested in.

We have some good conversations before each class, usually starting with homework and then moving on to non-school related topics, and over time I've started to become interested in her and I want to get to know her better. We have an open campus at my school, and since one of the classes I have with her is before lunch, I asked if she wanted to go with me and some friends (who she knows) to get lunch. I wasn't planning on asking her, but the opportunity presented itself and I took it. She declined (she already had plans for lunch), but said that we should try sometime later and we agreed that I'd text (she prefers this over calls) her in a few days to try to set something up.

A few days later (actually, that was yesterday), I texted her asking if she was free in the next few weeks, but she said she was busy and had too much homework and apologized. I responded with "Don't worry about it. Good luck with the homework." And she thanked me for understanding.

So, does she sound like she's not interested or is she just playing hard to get? (I know she might really be too busy, I'm mainly concerned about if she sounds like she's not interested).

I'm not sure if the homework thing was made up or not. I know for a fact that she has two fairly long papers to write for strict teachers (you have to spend a lot of time on the paper if you want a good grade) as well as math homework. Also, a lot of teachers are starting to assign more homework (not to mention more difficult homework) as the semester is getting close to being over. So I can understand how she might have a lot of homework.

So, what do you think?

Thanks.

How good are you at math?

I think that she cares about her grades and is making her homework a priority. I don't blame her.

Used to be good, not so much now. I haven't had an official math class for a few years, and you know how quickly most of us forget math.

I think that she cares about her grades and is making her homework a priority. I don't blame her.

...I asked if she wanted to go with me and some friends (who she knows) to get lunch. I wasn't planning on asking her, but the opportunity presented itself and I took it. She declined (she already had plans for lunch), but said that we should try sometime later and we agreed that I'd text (she prefers this over calls) her in a few days to try to set something up.

A few days later (actually, that was yesterday), I texted her asking if she was free in the next few weeks, but she said she was busy and had too much homework and apologized.

So, does she sound like she's not interested or is she just playing hard to get?

A few days later (actually, that was yesterday), I texted her asking if she was free in the next few weeks, but she said she was busy and had too much homework and apologized.

So, what do you think?

No clue what you mean. All I know is 5 out of 4 people have problems with fractions.

As Jato said, homework doesn't account for lunches ...and if she's already refusing you for an open invitation over the "next few weeks" without a specific day and time, then ...

She's just not interested.