How to respond, if at all, to a "We feel more like best friends e-mail"


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JennAnn is offline JennAnn Post #1  March 15,2010, 1:00pm
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jayjay is offline jayjay Post #2  March 15,2010, 1:21pm
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...things seem to have gotten quiet around here.

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Personally....I wouldn't even respond.
 
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ami1uwant is offline ami1uwant Post #3  March 15,2010, 1:43pm
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This would be your opportunity to find out why he feels that way. Did you do something wrong...did he misread you? Is there someone else?

Women do this to men too. I do believe two people can just be friends if they want to. Since this was 3 dates its still early in the process.
 
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Rainfallgirl is offline Rainfallgirl Post #4  March 15,2010, 2:53pm
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I am with Jayjay here. Don't respond. You don't want to appear to be groveling and asking what went wrong. He's not into you, that is all you need to know.

Consider it a favor and go on to find the next lucky guy who will appreciate you and all the wonderful things you have to offer.
 
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mrflyer is offline mrflyer Post #5  March 15,2010, 4:42pm
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I would respond only if you'd be content with just being friends with him.

At least he let you know.
 
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Amazon925 is offline Amazon925 Post #6  March 28,2010, 4:10pm
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I would honestly delete that person from my life. If they don't have enough respect for you to tell you in person, then they won't make a good friend, because friends respect each other.
 
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