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neardc is offline neardc Post #11  March 13,2010, 2:13pm
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Toodles, sayonara, and happy trails! Wishing everyone luck and love...

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Note that the OP has posted a continuation thread here: http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...-i-do-now.html (What do I do now?)
 
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BikerBeagle is offline BikerBeagle Post #12  March 13,2010, 5:40pm
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thinks everyone should just ask themselves, WWBBD?

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I am still friends and talk to that woman.
Here's your problem.

First, cut that cancer out of your life ...completely.

Then, this:
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Address your depression, which is apparently severe enough to affect your daily life and ability to fulfill your responsibilities.

The best way to do this is with a qualified therapist, preferably a clinical psychologist trained in cognitive-behavioral therapy. You may also want/need to try some medication to deal with your depression (if a mental health professional believes that this is warranted).
 
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You've been given some great advice so far. No need for my two cents.

I was going to say something in regards to your situation but for the sake of steering clear of an argument, I have decided not to.
 
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johnny99 is offline johnny99 Post #14  March 21,2010, 8:59pm
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I have been in a situation similar to yours, let me just tell you this and then you can go ahead and can either go ahead and keep on doing what you're doing or do as I tell you and maybe at least will fill a lot better:

YOU ARE A LOT MORE BETTER THAN THAT,
YOU ARE WORTH A LOT MORE THAN WHAT YOU THINK,
YOU ARE A GREAT HUMAN BEING AND THOSE WORTHLESS GIRLS DID NOT DESERVE YOU AT ALL.

(sorry for yelling)

Try to remember this and keep on going with your life, they do not deserve your precious time nor your thoughts. CHEER UP!!!! =)
 
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gymrat52 is offline gymrat52 Post #15  March 23,2010, 4:59pm
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joystickd wrote :
never got an adreniline rush from this situation. I don't consider myself obsessed. as of now i barely even talk to the woman.

Dude, It's HARD to read these posts, people telling you these things, believe me, I've been EXACTLY where you are. Sux, but denial ain't just a river in Egypt...Just read the advice, that sting you feel in your heart is the truth..The sooner you accept it, the sooner you can move on..I wasted 5 1/2 long lonely YEARS..Don't you do that....
 
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Amazon925 is offline Amazon925 Post #16  March 28,2010, 4:00pm
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I know exactly how you feel. Every guy I've ever shown interest in seems to only want to be a friend. It makes you doubt yourself and wonder what you're doing wrong and how you need to change to make people see that you're not just a friend. The only advice I can give is to find someone who values you enough to treat you with respect. I hope you find her!
 
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