How to stop a woman from playing games


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pilotlearning is offline pilotlearning Post #1  January 17,2010, 8:03am
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First off why do women feel like they have to play games in a relationship?

I have meet several woman on-line and I always feel like they are playing games. For example:

you send a text and she does not answer it. When you talk to her on the phone you ask why you did not respond, and she says.... I had my phone in my purse, I guess I did not look at my phone, then has a flirty laugh.

She says that she is not going to call me for a few days, as that means she likes me too much, then laughs about it. She ends up calling after I don't call her after a few days.

Tells me on the phone that she was wearing a skirt and had to climb a ladder at work, and I said you must be giving everyone a show... She responds back by saying she is not like that.


I find her on facebook, and add her as a friend. My friend request goes away that means she ignored the request. When I told her that I tried to add her as a friend on facebook, she said she has not used facebook in two years.


I know I am not the only guy dealing with games woman play, so if anyone has a solution on how to stop games in a relationship. I would love to know, and I bet thousands of men would want to know too!
 
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if you dont like what someone is doing move on. works every time
 
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is this the girl you only talk on the phone with because she won't go out with you?

if so, I don't really think you can complain that it's "all women"

and. you don't have a relationship.
 
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That is a good idea, but I want to learn the fine art of the games woman play, so I want to play too!

Kind of play her own games against her!
 
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I have not spoken to her in over a week. I have had other woman do it too, and I am wanting to learn how to recognize the games better.
 
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pilotlearning wrote :
That is a good idea, but I want to learn the fine art of the games woman play, so I want to play too!

Kind of play her own games against her!
Then what are you complaining for? If you want to play games, expect to have them played with you. It's really that simple.
 
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I just want to learn what to do, so that I can recognize them quicker. What is the best way to get the games to stop?
 
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Best way to get the games to stop is to ignore them. Don't play. Move along to the next girl. If you start playing games in return you're heading down the road to dating madness. Just be yourself.
 
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Guys that want girls to play games, are guys that can't handle a girl that doesn't play games. The second a girl is straight forward, honest reliable, approachable, receptive and interested, guys that play games go running for the hills because they are not ready for the real thing. They call it clingy, needy, desparate, when in actuality it is a girl that does not play with a persons emotions.

So look into yourself. Is dating just a hobby to you, in which it relieves boredom, and the less you have to chase a women, the less fun the game? If that is the case, have at it, but realize that you will not be the winner with a women that plays games. Even if she stops playing them, then you are left with an unstable women who is not mature enough to handle a real relationship.

It seems like you want to learn how women play games, so that you can overcome the obstacles and get this women to stop playing games, or so that you can hurt them by using their own game against them. Both are really uhealthy attitudes. I would suggest that you concern yourself with more important matters in life. It is a huge waste of time to focus that much energy and attention on attempting to manipulate a person by using games. Human beings are so complex that you can never learn to predict people. The second you think you know someone is when they go and change on you.

There are numerous world criseses that can distract you from boredom. Perhaps you can put more energy into a worthy cause. Millions of Hatians would appreciate a little extra attention right now.
 
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