Hurt; Confused... i need your opinion.

I'm young. So I'm naive and i need your opinion. when my boyfriend and i started talking we talked for a pretty long time on the phone at nights and he'd always call me throughout the day. once we got together, he doesn't talk to me much. the longest phone conversation we had (while we are dating) is about 28 minutes. we'd talk longer when we first met. I feel like he's trying to push me away or just doesn't like me. he tells me he likes me all the time and even loves me. but i don't believe him. he also talks to so many girls and i feel unimportant. i don't even feel like i'm his girlfriend. he says he never met anyone like me because im really nice and caring. but i feel like he's taking advantage of that. he also tells me so many things that gets my hopes up and then it not even happening. i like this guy... alot. and i feel like he's just using me as a toy or someone to comfort him. i also feel like he doesnt tell me everything and that hes secretly seeing his ex's because hes always talking to them and about them. he doesnt like when i talk to my ex but he can talk about his. and im always talking to him first making the initiative to talk to him. he just confuses me and i dont really know how he feels about me. he can't even take 2 minutes to tell me he's done with whatever he's doing and he's going to do something else. i need your opinion about him. what do you think is going on? it would really be nice to hear from all of you.

I'm young. So I'm naive and i need your opinion. when my boyfriend and i started talking we talked for a pretty long time on the phone at nights and he'd always call me throughout the day. once we got together, he doesn't talk to me much. the longest phone conversation we had (while we are dating) is about 28 minutes. we'd talk longer when we first met. I feel like he's trying to push me away or just doesn't like me. he tells me he likes me all the time and even loves me. but i don't believe him. he also talks to so many girls and i feel unimportant. i don't even feel like i'm his girlfriend. he says he never met anyone like me because im really nice and caring. but i feel like he's taking advantage of that. he also tells me so many things that gets my hopes up and then it not even happening. i like this guy... alot. and i feel like he's just using me as a toy or someone to comfort him. i also feel like he doesnt tell me everything and that hes secretly seeing his ex's because hes always talking to them and about them. he doesnt like when i talk to my ex but he can talk about his. and im always talking to him first making the initiative to talk to him. he just confuses me and i dont really know how he feels about me. he can't even take 2 minutes to tell me he's done with whatever he's doing and he's going to do something else. i need your opinion about him. what do you think is going on? it would really be nice to hear from all of you.

Its common for a guy to not talk as much on the phone as he did before....for two reasons....either he isnt interested in you as he was before or he feels mor content with you so the relationship has past that infactuation zone and entered a more stable zone so he doesnt feel he needs to spend hours and keep you occupied by talking. How much time do you spend together in person...has that changed?

What sort of timeline is this...months or weeks???

How old are you? If all the signs keep telling you this guy isn't right for you in some way maybe you should examine them?

Maybe it's him, maybe it's you, but either way you probably need to take a step back, and that includes getting a little distance from this guy and assessing what the problems you're experiencing are, how you want things to be different, and whether they're your issue or his.

I'm young. So I'm naive and i need your opinion. when my boyfriend and i started talking we talked for a pretty long time on the phone at nights and he'd always call me throughout the day. once we got together, he doesn't talk to me much. the longest phone conversation we had (while we are dating) is about 28 minutes. we'd talk longer when we first met. I feel like he's trying to push me away or just doesn't like me. he tells me he likes me all the time and even loves me. but i don't believe him.

he also talks to so many girls and i feel unimportant. i don't even feel like i'm his girlfriend. he says he never met anyone like me because im really nice and caring. but i feel like he's taking advantage of that. he also tells me so many things that gets my hopes up and then it not even happening. i like this guy... alot. and i feel like he's just using me as a toy or someone to comfort him. i also feel like he doesnt tell me everything and that hes secretly seeing his ex's because hes always talking to them and about them. he doesnt like when i talk to my ex but he can talk about his. and im always talking to him first making the initiative to talk to him. he just confuses me and i dont really know how he feels about me. he can't even take 2 minutes to tell me he's done with whatever he's doing and he's going to do something else.

i need your opinion about him. what do you think is going on? it would really be nice to hear from all of you.