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ojoyfulone is offline ojoyfulone Post #21  November 23,2009, 7:19pm
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jayjay wrote :
How much 'confidence' a woman has means nothing to me. I want a woman who is emotionally healthy....but I think that's a very different thing than having (or appearing to have) confidence. If she's nervous meeting me at first that doesn't turn me off at all. The only thing is I would want her to be able to feel comfortable sharing things about herself before long so I can get to know her.
Jayjay.....thank you. Makes me feel good that guys are okay with some women lacking confidence during the dating process. You're sweet!
 
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First off, be open and honest about the fact that you are disabled. In my opinion if someone is not willing to look past that, you are better off without them anyway. Regarding your profile, you should answer the questions honestly, but treat it more like an application for a job. Everyone has their own Strengths and Weaknesses, so emphasize your strengths. On the questions in which you lack experience, just answer them in the way that you believe you would want. Whenever you need a boost of confidence, remind yourself of the things that you are good at, and block out your flaws. You must first confince yourself that you are unique and special, before anyone else will believe it. Good luck
Hi bjfrat!

I actually had a post up on another board with a review for my profile I have up at eHarmony. Here is the link:

http://advice.eharmony.com/boards/da...le-review.html (Anyone up for another profile review?)

If you wanted to comment on it, I'd greatly appreciate it! You could send me a PM if you would like and if not, that's okay.

Thank you for your encouragement and advice! True about strengths and weaknesses.
 
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