This guy is married, right? And cheating on his wife with you? Ok, let's answer this easily...

1. He's cheating on his wife. Probably not a good idea for her to see you calling him at a bad time.

2. He's cheating on his wife. Guilt maybe?

3. He's cheating on his wife. Married men generally don't introduce their mistresses as such because it makes it sort of obvious that he's cheating on her. Duh.

4. He's cheating on his wife. Which he hasn't divorced yet. How do you know he's planning a divorce? Did he tell you about it? Are you saying he hasn't told you about it and you want to know why (which means he isn't planning on getting a divorce) or you want to know why he's getting a divorce (...because he's cheating on his wife).

5. He's cheating on his wife. He's obviously already used to lying and probably isn't too happy that you're leaving an E-Mail that makes it obvious you're cheating to anyone who reads it. You're making his deception harder to maintain. Again, duh.

6. He's cheating on his wife. And you're both lying. He's probably trying to be, I don't know, sneaky about it. Which if you want to continue cheating you may want to work on.

7. He's cheating on his wife. You're cheating on your husband. It's not exactly the easiest situation for either of you. Relationships are hard enough to form when you aren't cheating. He obviously doesn't trust you (which means he has a brain). You shouldn't trust him. There's no way to know if there's another person from what you've said but it's not like he isn't already cheating. Technically the other person is his wife. Funny how that works.

I'm only half judging you. Logically speaking you've both established yourselves as individuals willing to lie and cheat on their significant other. So your doubts and the possibility of that happening in this relationship are pretty likely.

Is it possible your relationship could survive? Technically, yes. Is it likely? Not in the slightest. I would highly recommend for both of you to fix the problems in your current relationships before worrying about problems in a new one. Probably a good place to start.

Jacquesne