Bearwolf102 is offline Bearwolf102 Post #11  November 2,2009, 1:26pm
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See what happens but try to back off the smothering. If you alow for some space I think you will find things get much more fun.

Love only grows with trust.

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BikerBeagle is offline BikerBeagle Post #12  November 2,2009, 2:31pm
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Homer231 wrote :
***UPDATE*** I just, after several hours, got a text reply, saying yes...that would be nice going out to dinner. I'm more confused now then ever...maybe I just misinterpreted this whole thing, but it was like I described in my original post.
This is only good news if you are learning to get (and, by "learning to get", I mean "getting") your insecurity and immaturity in check; otherwise, what do you really expect to ever become of this? Hopefully, there won't be a sequel to this thread ..."I Over-Did It II: She caught me standing nekid outside her bedroom window". =)
 
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BikerBeagle wrote :
This is only good news if you are learning to get (and, by "learning to get", I mean "getting") your insecurity and immaturity in check; otherwise, what do you really expect to ever become of this? Hopefully, there won't be a sequel to this thread ..."I Over-Did It II: She caught me standing nekid outside her bedroom window". =)
+1...maybe you need to chill out a little bit too...don't freak her out....so far I think the scenarios that have been going on...are in your head, she might even be clueless about all this.

p.s. yes don't do the standing nekked outside her bedroom window. It doesn't work, plus it's dangerous if she happens to slam it shut
 
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Shelby is offline Shelby Post #14  November 2,2009, 3:48pm
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You've only seen each other two weeks and you seem to be obsessing over every move she does and doesn't make. (I thought only women did this!)

You should relax and not hit the SEND button so fast after one of your sarcastic texts. She is still giving you a chance to develop your history with her. Cut the sarcasm -- it starts to get annoying and unpleasant, and reeks of jerkiness, not to mention insecurity and immaturity.

You feel like you're fumbling the ball, but you can still recover and score a point, or let the whole relationship dribble away.
 
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tweet37 is offline tweet37 Post #15  November 3,2009, 4:56am
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Shelby wrote :
You've only seen each other two weeks and you seem to be obsessing over every move she does and doesn't make. (I thought only women did this!)

You should relax and not hit the SEND button so fast after one of your sarcastic texts. She is still giving you a chance to develop your history with her. Cut the sarcasm -- it starts to get annoying and unpleasant, and reeks of jerkiness, not to mention insecurity and immaturity.

You feel like you're fumbling the ball, but you can still recover and score a point, or let the whole relationship dribble away.
And forget the texting. It's retarded unless you're a kid.
 
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Homer231 is offline Homer231 Post #16  November 3,2009, 10:18am
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LOL to the last couple of replies...Ahhhh I'm not a weirdo to do a stalking nekid outside a house..Too Funny. I acknowledged my insecurity and immaturity on this one, which I can say was not the course in my past. But, I think I'm back to my balanced self after some personal reflection...just keeping it light.
 
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Homer231 wrote :
Thanks everybody...I figured as much..I guess I was under the assumption usually when you want to sever ties..you pretty much just let it go completely and don't reply back
Some of us were brought up with manners, not to just "poof"
 
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chawks64 is offline chawks64 Post #18  November 3,2009, 1:34pm
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tweet37 wrote :
And forget the texting. It's retarded unless you're a kid.
Oh honey, it can be VERY sexy. And I'm 44.
 
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kevin76 is offline kevin76 Post #19  November 3,2009, 1:44pm
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tweet37 wrote :
And forget the texting. It's retarded unless you're a kid*.
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Oh honey, it can be VERY sexy. And I'm 44.

*"Kid" == anyone under 50, or anyone who thinks bluray DVD is better than VHS tapes, or anyone who knows how to work an iPhone.
Also may include most people who know enough about computers to connect to the internet and do retarded things like posting on message boards, but obviously there are a few exceptions.
 
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