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TKCerbs wrote :
I recently met up with a girl over coffee, We are both fresh out of long term relationships (me about 2 weeks, her less than a week)
Honestly, my first attempt, I stopped reading after the part above ...but, I did go back and read the rest on my 2nd attempt with no change to my opinion.

What the heck are you thinking?!? Why would you even be considering this?

Is it not obvious that she's not romantically interested in you? ...she's using you for your entertainment/distraction value, nothing else. I would hasten to guess that those texts, phone calls, and late nights are her ex as they 'work things out'.

Dude, this is Nowheresville for you ...there is nothing down that road, it's a dead end. You need to take some time off and stop worrying about jumping right back into the 'next' thing.
- November 5th, 2009, 05:03 am
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Completely agree with BikerBeagle
- November 5th, 2009, 05:16 am
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