awidowwoman is offline awidowwoman Post #1  October 13,2009, 6:35pm
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I know when a guy says he has no time...he means no relationship, but can that change or is it set in stone?:
 
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D_Lion is offline D_Lion Post #2  October 14,2009, 4:21pm
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Can you gather some more words to ask more of a question?

If you are speaking of a specific invitation you asked him on, and he replies with “no time,” it is his burden to suggest an alternate time. If he does not, that is a very bad sign that he is not interested.

If he is simply far busier than you, that might change. I was working a lot and going to school at night during most of the time I used online dating, and that left me without much time.

But … I never blew off a woman with something so dumb as “no time.” I just stated when I would be available.
 
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