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Icouldwriteabook is offline Icouldwriteabook Post #21  October 1,2009, 12:08pm
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BikerBeagle wrote :
Sounds like he's just lining you up to be his next conquest (and the reason for him to end his current relationship). I guess, if you are ok with that, go for it. Just keep in mind, this is likely his 'pattern' ...getting the next girlfriend before sending the current one packing ...and will likely be your future as you play out your role of next-current-last. The guy is showing you his colors by flirting "shamelessly" while he has a girlfriend. You might want to consider that.

Good advice as always, BikerBeagle!

Normally I might have said tell him "Sure, let's do something together, when......you are no longer involved in a relationship". I do agree with BikerBeagle's comment about him flirting while in a relationship showing his true colors. Not a good sign!
 
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Everyone gave you some good advice here and I hope you do the right thing. Do unto others as you would like them to do unto you. HE is not doing this and may (will) do the same to you in the future.
 
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He may not be as bad of a guy as everyone is making him out to be here. I am not saying he is acting right, but he is not being the scum of the earth either. I read somewhere that most often a man will not leave a relationship, even a bad one, unless he has someone else to go to. I would be inclined to believe that.
If he is unhappy in his relationship then of course he is going to be looking around. Obviously he just doesn't have the guts to come right out and end it with her.
He is not married to this woman (married to or living with is totally different). Give him a call and get to know him yourself. While it is possible that you are just "his next conquest" and he is playing games, he could really like you and it turn out that the two of you are a great match.
 
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