JBinthe615 is offline JBinthe615 Post #1  September 24,2009, 3:47pm
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First of all I haven't date in ages like for several years, and I'm quite inexperimented on that, and I don't really know what I'm doing, so can be really confused on all dating topics...

Well I started talking to that girl that I met through Eharmony a couple of weeks ago, well after going thru the whole process (we actually did the whole process thru email as her EH was about to run out), I asked her last week if we could meet up and she said yah, so we did meet for lunch today.

Lunch went well. We met for an hour, we at, talked all the time of things and other. I actually got surprizingly comfortable in the date (I assume that was a date) almost right away, which I thing is amazing knowing that I haven't dated in years and knowing that I'm shy, the funny thing is that I only got nervous about my date only about 3 hours before.

So at the end we exchanged phone numbers. So my question is what should I do now? Should I wait a bit to contact her (how long), or do it right away, or wait for her to do it... and how should I contact her (I have her phone number and email). I would be interested in having a 2nd date.

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86CJ7 is offline 86CJ7 Post #2  September 24,2009, 4:02pm

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I'd drop her an email this evening saying that I really enjoyed myself and hope that she did too.

Tomorrow or the day after (but I would not wait too long) I'd call her and ask her out again.
 
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Diann1950 is offline Diann1950 Post #3  September 24,2009, 4:12pm
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That sounds about right. Women are insecure too and it is nice to know that you enjoyed the date. Yes it is a date, for some of us that is about as close as we get. Keep hoping.
 
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OK I have sent her in email. I'll probably give her a call tomorrow.

As a 2nd what would you guys suggest? Like another lunch date, or more nightly date, is 2nd date too soon for that or something?
 
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Try a date that lasts 3-4 hours... and have it be some activity.
 
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Activity for sure. See her in multiple situations. Do something that she likes. Or that you enjoy and want to share with her.

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