Quick Takes on Relationships with Mars/Venus Guru, John Gray

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alfredgina is offline alfredgina Post #1  September 22,2009, 11:40am
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thanks for the tips! always helpful!
 
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gentle4 is offline gentle4 Post #2  October 24,2009, 5:35am
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I have heard that before,,,,,,there is something to be said about this.  How do we REALLY know then what we truely want in our lives?
 
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j929ss is offline j929ss Post #3  October 24,2009, 7:17am
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What does it mean when my girlfriend says "I love you but Im not in love with you"?
 
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LookinUp is offline LookinUp Post #4  November 1,2009, 9:37pm
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What does it mean when a woman emphasizes that she wants: space, structure, and an eHarmony "Must Have" item that states: "I can't stand someone who bases their happiness on me."?

I am a professional with my own interests, and I do like women who are accomplished in their careers, and have friends - but I dont want to be an "accessory" to their life. I see a love relationship as central to my life, and yet I have goals and outside interests.

I wonder: can I be happy with a person that does not want to be THAT important to me? I wonder: what woman would not want to be the apple of my eye and the center of my life? Perhaps a broken heart and bitter divorce in their past. I ask bc eHarmony matches me with very independent women based on the 29 secret ingredients - or however many are left - maybe 28 lol.

ps: In a sense, how significant can their significant other be to her? I want to be significant!
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What does it mean when my girlfriend says "I love you but Im not in love with you"?
It means she cares about you, but no longer has the giddy feeling from when you first started to date.  Most of all it means she has NO idea what love is or how it should feel.  I would just move on, she seems inmature.
 
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What does it mean when my girlfriend says "I love you but Im not in love with you"?
It means she cares about you, but no longer has the giddy feeling from when you first started to date.  Most of all it means she has NO idea what love is or how it should feel.  I would just move on, she seems inmature.
this si scarry becus sometimes my bf sais this 2 me. hes been my bf for 8 years and now i think he dossnot want to be my bf anymore.

is this like the same thing?
 
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Great article
 
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Nanette is offline Nanette Post #8  December 18,2009, 1:51pm
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souxieque wrote :
this si scarry becus sometimes my bf sais this 2 me. hes been my bf for 8 years and now i think he dossnot want to be my bf anymore.

is this like the same thing?
I would seriously consider moving on. If someone said that to me I would be giving them ample time and space to think about it thats for sure
 
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Joker1 is offline Joker1 Post #9  February 17,2010, 6:54pm

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Great article.
 
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TNgal01 is offline TNgal01 Post #10  October 12,2010, 4:53am
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Im going on a first date, with someone i feel a connection with, is it ok to bring him something special or is that the wrong move to make right now?
 
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