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I was getting along quite well with a gentleman and we had reached the "open" level. We spoke for about 4 times, then the last time I heard from him was 8/27/09. I have sent a few " R u ok" kinda" messages, with no response. Does this usually mean he is no longer interested ?
- September 15th, 2009, 01:28 am
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Yes, move on!
- September 15th, 2009, 01:33 pm
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He's just not that into you.
- September 15th, 2009, 02:02 pm
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I would assume he is no longer interested!
- September 15th, 2009, 03:24 pm
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well something similiar happened to me where i was the person that didnt respond to the other guy. it wasnt that i wasnt interested in him, but i was also interested in someone else. and i just kinda put my focus to one person.

also sometimes it means that their account expired and they are not able to read your messages anymore.

dont send him anymore messages - if you wants to chat he will send a message. and if he doesn't then move on.
- September 15th, 2009, 03:46 pm
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Or some one has duct taped him to his bed.....but I'm leaning toward lack of interest. There are millions of people, so this game isn't over yet.
- September 15th, 2009, 04:24 pm
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yourangel1960 wrote :
I was getting along quite well with a gentleman and we had reached the "open" level. We spoke for about 4 times, then the last time I heard from him was 8/27/09. I have sent a few " R u ok" kinda" messages, with no response. Does this usually mean he is no longer interested ?
Two weeks?
Um, yeah, that's a big 10-4...

that is, unless he's gone to Europe for two weeks, then disregard all and any advice.
- September 15th, 2009, 04:52 pm
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He poofed! It happens all the time. Plenty more fish in the sea.
- September 15th, 2009, 05:15 pm
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He poofed, but why does he not just close the match? Wouldn't it be irritating to see her profile in his communication box when he is not interested in her any longer? Why would he want to be updated every time she updates her profile? Also, if he has been communicating with her for a while, would it be the nice thing to do to send an email letting her know that he is not interested. What are these men who do this thinking? Are they just cowards, and so much so that they cannot even face a keyboard and type in a short email? This is something that I don't get. Does anyone have an explanation? Men, please kindly explain it from your perspective to me so that I can finally understand. Thanks.
- September 15th, 2009, 05:34 pm
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I got closed by a guy for not responding to request to communicate. I answered his questions, he answered mine. Was I supposed to make the next move? In all honesty I couldn't see it going anywhere but he looked like he could be fun, but I knew I wasn't attracted to him. Wuzupwiththat?
- September 15th, 2009, 05:39 pm
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