lerdman2572 is offline lerdman2572 Post #1  September 3,2009, 12:02am
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The eHarmony advice for today as far as relationship concerns says the following (below). If you are dating someone who, in every other way is a great guy, is there a way to tell him or let him know that this is disrespectful and that it bothers you if the guy is clueless in this regard?
"They Check Everyone Out
Let’s face it. There will always be other people in this world who are more attractive than your boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, or wife. If your relationship is honest and strong, you can recognize the attractive mailman or the cute barista behind the counter without dreaming of greener grass. If your mate is ogling every hot pair of legs or stud muffin physique you pass, however, something is wrong, and it’s not you.
A confident person will expect their sweetheart to treat them as the only one in the room. You can still like the way other people look, but you shouldn’t find it necessary to disrespectfully compare them to your partner. "
 
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if you do tell them then keep it light and dont make demands or issue ultimatums. if you cant accept it find someone that doesnt do it.
 
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Confession is offline Confession Post #3  September 4,2009, 12:15pm
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Ogling is poor behavior on anyone's part unless you are at a strip club. Why would you date someone who demonstrates rude behavior?
 
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