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heretoseeu is offline heretoseeu Post #1  September 1,2009, 11:47pm
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I've read so many of these so called advice things and none of you women get to the point!! The so called women that men want that are the type of women they are attracted to all depends on how MUCH money they make, and what their status is. I have never seen a great looking girl with a guy and keep on seeing him if he isn't going anywhere in his career or already there. You so called sexy women that all us guys want know what i am talking about. You by far look at what a guy's status is ahead of ANYTHING else that even matters!!!! HELLO??????????????? GET REAL. I look lots better than so many guys but they won't look twice at me because i don't make over 70 grand to 200 grand, or i don't have the status. Advice to you men, get a great job, and or get great status or fame, if you are above 25 or you will be getting what you pay for. Someone you aren't attracted to, but will be NICE> it's so sad.
 
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There's an old saying:

"You get what you deserve and... deserve what you get".
 
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heretoseeu wrote :
I've read so many of these so called advice things and none of you women get to the point!! The so called women that men want that are the type of women they are attracted to all depends on how MUCH money they make, and what their status is. I have never seen a great looking girl with a guy and keep on seeing him if he isn't going anywhere in his career or already there. You so called sexy women that all us guys want know what i am talking about. You by far look at what a guy's status is ahead of ANYTHING else that even matters!!!! HELLO??????????????? GET REAL. I look lots better than so many guys but they won't look twice at me because i don't make over 70 grand to 200 grand, or i don't have the status. Advice to you men, get a great job, and or get great status or fame, if you are above 25 or you will be getting what you pay for. Someone you aren't attracted to, but will be NICE> it's so sad.
REALLY? So, are you saying the people who are either happily married or in a satisfactory relationship ALL make over 70 to 200 grands and have some sort of status?
 
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Is this some sort of Joke heretoseeu? I think you might want to work on being happy with yourself and gaining some self confidence rather than trash talking all girls as gold diggers. Status and wealth is rarely the full package my friend. Have you tried participating in activities where you can meet girls with like interests? Perhaps dancing or a fun class?

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heretoseeu, here is some advice- grow up
 
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heretoseeu wrote :
I've read so many of these so called advice things and none of you women get to the point!! The so called women that men want that are the type of women they are attracted to all depends on how MUCH money they make, and what their status is. I have never seen a great looking girl with a guy and keep on seeing him if he isn't going anywhere in his career or already there. You so called sexy women that all us guys want know what i am talking about. You by far look at what a guy's status is ahead of ANYTHING else that even matters!!!! HELLO??????????????? GET REAL. I look lots better than so many guys but they won't look twice at me because i don't make over 70 grand to 200 grand, or i don't have the status. Advice to you men, get a great job, and or get great status or fame, if you are above 25 or you will be getting what you pay for. Someone you aren't attracted to, but will be NICE> it's so sad.
Wow. You sound like you've been rejected one to many times. Speaking for myself, status isn't the first thing I look at. Actually I don't look at status. As long as they have a job or a good reason not to I'll give them a shot. The last guy I dated lived in a 5th wheel with his brother, worked part-time at a gas station and went to school. The current guy I'm dating works and is broke all the time from being a single parent and paying bills.

So back off dude.
 
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wow that isn't true at all. Yes some girls are like that, but some guys are like that too. I'm guessing you were hurt or rejected by someone, but don't label all girls just because of a couple. I'm not a bad catch and I personally could care less about money. I'm not sure what you mean by "status". When it comes to my boyfriends' jobs, I do care about stability (being able to hold a job for a long time), long term planning (thinking of the future and not instant gratification), a hard work ethic, and of course working legally (not under the table). My ex fiance had no car, lived in a halfway house, and was at the start of his career (i.e., at the bottom) of a tree service company when I met him. I think you might be overly sensitive, and taking this personally, because you are insecure. Maybe you do need to make some improvements in the job/career area to build your self confidence. But remember, it is never too late to get started, so don't get discouraged that you have to start at the bottom and work your way up. There is no shortcut, or quick fix, to having a career - you have to work hard like all the rest of us. If someone truly cares for you they will see that you are working hard and trying, and not judge you. By the way, my ex fiance now is a totally sucessful business owner with some nice material things as well. Good luck!
 
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waypoint_finder wrote :
There's an old saying:

"You get what you deserve and... deserve what you get".
There's another saying:

You may not always get what you want. You may not always get what you need. But pray that you never get what you deserve.
 
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Confession is offline Confession Post #10  September 4,2009, 12:28pm
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Unfortunately, if you are relying on an online profile to attract women, then you had better have something outstanding to offer in terms of looks or cash.

My experience is that men with social skills will beat the men with money almost every time.

Step 1: Be the best man you can be.

Step 2: Enjoy yourself.

Step 3: Go out and meet real women.

You have to be good with women to be successful with women - even online.
 
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