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Hey I am a 30 something woman.... I got out of a relationship with a nut job...and was out in the scene and met a seemingly nice guy...whom I have to admit I thought would be a nice go between or rebound...but he did not want to have sex... he stayed all night snuggling and staring at me and the next day took me out to breakfast and wanted to know what we were doing the rest of the day... I was wiereded out but thought...oh the last one was sooo awful this is nice to be adored... but he never left..then when he did he would make up these wild stories about how he has to go meet this other girl....but nothing is gonna happen... my inital reaction was ok this guy is player....but he someone kept me interested..... for a while till I could not take it anymore...I cut communications till i get a letter from him saying that I used him and he isnt over it yet but thinks he will forgive soon which led to more sex openly just sex...at least i thought but then he would cry all the time in bed. say did nt you think we acted like b/f g/f and kissed me passionatly night...my friends all warned me to RUN AWAY...and i was gonna till he opend up and helped me thru a rough time.....he was very supportive....and we got closer and then one day he became a jerk and started telling me he wanted to kill himself and it had to look like an accident so i rushed over only to see him smiling and telling me about some other girl he was gonna meet.....i was just about to leave and he assure me he did not want to meet her...I only stayed to see if there was really something to what he was telling me earlier. he told me he watched me on a certain page where I make music playlists and knew what moods I was in and showed me the whole list of 500 videos and played some for me and some that he thougth were like his sad depressed life..........I stayed the night and he made a fuss about not sleeping in the same room as me and I said ok whatever i need to sleep and he just ended up crawling in bed with me and put a pillow over his head
the next day I was soo stressed out he stared at me and accused me of 1 faking or beiing pregnant to which he asked if I wanted to be prego and when I said no he offered to puch me in the baby maker... i left after that...only to have him follow..........unfortunatly it was his birthdya that day and he told me the time we had together was the best he ever had and it was the best b day he ever had..........but it was not a party not even a good time ......the next day we get into a fight cause I am trying to say goodbye and it seemed like he was too but everytime i go to tell him off he says something stupied to keep me in his head games....i gave up and wtote his mother about his behavior as he has a history of depression and anxiety.....and i get a letter in the mail saying that he is mad cause he is in the pysch ward and lost his apartment due to the letter I wrote his mother,,,,telling me he is not allowed to even speak with me but wanted me to appologise....but his and my friends assure me he is not even in the hospital...........what the hell did that guy even want me>>>
 
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