The_wheelman is offline The_wheelman Post #1  August 20,2009, 7:21am
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I'm new to eharmony and not sure where this topic belongs. So I signed up at the beginning of this month and in less than a couple of days I had a woman wanting to talk to me. The way my profile is setup I had it set to guided communication. Now here's the dilema I was doing the guided communication deal with her which she started. The problem is we went through all the guided steps and hit the open communication stage, and she has to be the one to instagate the open communication since she started it, I've not heard or seen anything from her in 10 days since my last communication. I'm debating on closing the match because I haven't heard anything thinking maybe she lost interest, but yet at the same time I want to keep it open in case maybe she's intimadated and doesn't know what to say or she just hasn't logged on. So is it me just being impatient or is it better to keep it open? any advice would be appreciated.
 
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Ms666 is offline Ms666 Post #2  August 20,2009, 8:07am
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Try sending her a Nudge. She could just be busy with other things or may not even realize she's supposed to send a message.
 
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The_wheelman is offline The_wheelman Post #3  August 20,2009, 8:13am
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nudge sent thanks!
 
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COURAGE is offline COURAGE Post #4  August 24,2009, 11:03am
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Looks as I the one falling out a situation BUT MYADVISE - learn to trust and go with the flow. What happens,happens.
 
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