determinedlass62 is offline determinedlass62 Post #1  August 19,2009, 5:54am
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wondering how much more effort i should put forward with this match? meet a man on eh and he travels half way across USA to meet me(he can afford to do so) we have an awesome time together. Danced, Great make out sessions a little touchy feely but no sex .Perfect weekend but when I dropped him at airport no kiss good bye Recieved email next day thanking me for great time,and closed with hope to see me again, would like to be friends if it did not work out romantically Guys-was he just not that into me or does he need time to acesss the weekend? Ifs hes just not that into me why doesnt he just say that?
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I see no evidence from your post that he isn't in to you. It sounds very much like he likes you a lot!
It also sounds from your post that you're thinking WAY too much about this right now. Step back, breath, give this guy and chance to do the same, and THEN determine if he's not into you.
 
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You met once, he stayed at your place?, you traveled? or paid? What "effort" do you mean?So you met up for a brief encounter..and?
....Frankly, it sounds as if he is married and if you are willing to be his out-of-town "friend",.... he'll come see you, and take it from there, meaning "doesn't want problems or a real relationship", but is still hoping for sex if and when he rolls into town on , no doubt, a "business trip".
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wondering how much more effort i should put forward with this match? meet a man on eh and he travels half way across USA to meet me(he can afford to do so) we have an awesome time together. Danced, Great make out sessions a little touchy feely but no sex .Perfect weekend but when I dropped him at airport no kiss good bye Received email next day thanking me for great time,and closed with hope to see me again, would like to be friends if it did not work out romantically Guys-was he just not that into me or does he need time to acesss the weekend? Ifs hes just not that into me why doesnt he just say that?
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