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Hey folks here is my situation in boy meets girl style. Comments and advice are always welcome.

Boy meets girl. Boy really likes girl. Girl is doing graduate work to become a doctor. Girl is busy. Boy dates girl whenever she is able. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy tells girl he wants to be exclusive. Girl tells boy that she has been hurt before and is afraid. Boy gives girl assurance that that’s ok they can take their time. Things go along as before. Girl gets done with class for the summer. Boy is excited as they should be able to spend more time together. Girl tells boy she can’t see him one week. Boy understands. Girl tells boy her neck hurts the next weekend they are going to go out. But girl goes out with friends. It’s been 3 weeks since boy has seen girl. Boy is confused and hurt…

Boy looks back on the summer and boy and girls relationship. Boy did communication, date planning, cooking, prepping, paying, driving, schedule shifting, and waiting. Girl kept boy at arm’s length. Boy respected girl’s feelings and need for time.

Boy doesn’t know what to do now…
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Girl not that into boy.
Boy must move on.
Sorry.
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Bearwolf102 wrote :
Hey folks here is my situation in boy meets girl style. Comments and advice are always welcome.

Boy meets girl. Boy really likes girl. Girl is doing graduate work to become a doctor. Girl is busy. Boy dates girl whenever she is able. Boy falls in love with girl. Boy tells girl he wants to be exclusive. Girl tells boy that she has been hurt before and is afraid. Boy gives girl assurance that that’s ok they can take their time. Things go along as before. Girl gets done with class for the summer. Boy is excited as they should be able to spend more time together. Girl tells boy she can’t see him one week. Boy understands. Girl tells boy her neck hurts the next weekend they are going to go out. But girl goes out with friends. It’s been 3 weeks since boy has seen girl. Boy is confused and hurt…



Boy looks back on the summer and boy and girls relationship. Boy did communication, date planning, cooking, prepping, paying, driving, schedule shifting, and waiting. Girl kept boy at arm’s length. Boy respected girl’s feelings and need for time.

After all of that she kept you at arm's length???Looks like girl was giving boy signs all along the way but boy did not want to see. Sorry.

Boy doesn’t know what to do now…Bearwolf102
I know it hurts but boy must move on...
 
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I always did go with my heart first and not my head. It would not be the first time I have been blindsided by what I already knew...

I dislike pain but it is all to familiar...
 
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Bearwolf102 wrote :
I always did go with my heart first and not my head. It would not be the first time I have been blindsided by what I already knew...

I dislike pain but it is all to familiar...
You need to know that you are not alone. All of us at one time or another will put way more into a relationship than the other party and we refuse to see what is right in front of our eyes. As I get older I pay attention to the signs sooner. If someone can't give as much as you (because they don't want to), that is a clear sign that in the long run you will be the giver and the other person will keep taking (that is until they find someone they really want to share with). That's not a good relationship.
 
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Sorry to hear that, hun. Best of luck in moving on.
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Me too. Me too. But hey, nothing ventured, nothing gained, right?
 
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I'm sorry but sometimes this love stuff really sucks.
 
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I admit I am crushed right now. Sadly (as if it could get worse) I am here in the office with more time to go untill I can go home.

A broken heart only repairs with time...

I don't think I will be able to jump back on the dateing horse for a little bit. Guess it's time to take a little break.

Well I will see how I feel latter this week...

Thank you for your time
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Poor sad panda. Here's hoping the break heals quickly.
 
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